you cant find yourself, you’re always becoming 🙇🏽♀️ and isn’t that what life is about, the constant becoming. because if there’s something that we’re guaranteed, it’s change. therefore, you’re constantly becoming. life is a experience of falling apart, to come back together stronger than before. as i rite my own passage, i have learned that through the heartbreaking situations that there’s a catalyst waiting on the other side. i have learned that those heartbreaks have opened me up to my gooey and soft underbelly––it softened me and helped me remove the armour that was standing between me and myself. you’re becoming, that doesn’t mean you’re not enough. because you are. you have always been. you just forgot. maybe you listened to others projections of you and accepted them as your truth. just as the moon reflects the light of the sun back to us, we don’t accept the moons light as sunshine. it’s a reflection. you’re becoming, that means that with time and phases you will find ways to get rid of negative thought patterns and behaviours. you’re becoming. you’re flourishing. it all internal, although we sometimes like to circle around the world to find ourselves, the answer will be the same. the passage will still be through the heart, through the various armours you’ve built around yourself. through the heartbreak onto the catalyst that awaits you on the other side of pain. so stop searching, if you want. or keep looking, you’re becoming regardless. you’re flourishing. p.s. i love you — s #sarache #missclarahotel #nobisgroup #mentalhealth #spiritualawakening #burnoutrecovery #ptsd #ptsdrecovery #hsp #highlysensitiveperson #selfcompassion #selfcaretip #ptsdawareness #mentalhealthawarenessmonth #curlycommunity #curlyhaircare #naturalcurls #naturalhairstyles #curl #curlygirlmethod #curlynaturalhair #girlswithcurls #holistichealer #holistichealers #eclipseseason #fullmoon (at Miss Clara Hotel) https://www.instagram.com/p/Bz8s2TLp92_/?igshid=39ourgobniuv