#non-trans

[thingstrumperssay]

Musk decided that “cis” is a bannable slur now, so I’m just going to call cisgender people “non-trans” whenever I remember to do so on Twitter. (I’m probably not going to remember often.)

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

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Transgendern’t (transgendernot) or transn’t (non-transgender): someone who is not trans* while not essentially cis*; a grouping or unifying term for people who are absgender, isogender, ipsogender, demicisgender or cisgender.

[ID: 5 stripes with purple, turquoise, grey, yellow and blue. End ID] - Ap

[plus-size-trans-guys]

I broke up w/ my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. I hadn't been committed to the relationship for a while because I wanted to date other people but now I don't know what to do. Is it okay to date new people so soon? And how would I find them if it is? (Sorry if this ask isn't okay because its not trans related, I just had nowhere else to go)

Hey you can come here any time, friend.Well, if you wanted to date other people during the relationship, it’s kind of good that it ended because now you’re open to. If you want, take a bit to breathe and relax, enjoy the freedom of being single for a week or two or a month, whatever is comfortable for you. Or, if you really want another relationship, dive right in to dating. As for finding a relationship, just open yourself to new people, say hi to someone as you walk down the road, hold a door open, join forums, expose yourself to new people and new experiences. Even if you don’t get a relationship out of it, you’ll have a fantastic time.

[dookwang-forlife]

140202 ; ;

#1:

기:ジュニョン君が監督、ドゥジュン君がカメラマンですね。ヨソプ君から、僕に途中役者が変わったんですよね。(映像で) で、ドゥジュンがカメラマン。ギグァンが役者で撮影してるふり。두광ヽ(；▽；)ノ

#2:

두:昨日はギグァン君とヨソプ君とフットサルをしました。都心にあんなフットサルができる場所があるなんて凄いですね。 기:僕は昨日ドゥジュン君とフットサルをしました。 で、ドゥジュンと、ギグァンが前に出てきてサッカーやるふり。두광ヽ(；▽；)ノ

[snarkytransman]

walterxlabby said: Is that a line from something, Snarky? That sounds so familiar

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kV7ou6pl5wU

[snarkytransman]

Life update

Work

Passed my 3 month review and got a little pay-rise. Things are going well, and whilst I don’t earn that much right now, in a couple of years I should be in a pretty damn decent place. I should be solidly within a stable company that I like working for, and if anything went haywire, enough marketable skills to find work elsewhere.

It’s not what I originally planned or wanted to do, but having stability, a plan, and a solid way forward means a lot.

Ex-Mother

2 months No Contact. Going strong. When I went NC initially there was a flurry of texts, missed calls, and emails, but since then nothing has happened. I suspect it will at some point.

Next year I think I’m going to try and get some more counselling. It’s a very slow thing to work through, because it’s changing my entire framework of reality. Like, I’ve been taught to hate myself since before I could speak (no, really).

Being subject to her volatility, extreme selfishness, and manipulation, whilst thinking that I was the problem... Yeah. It took me years to realise that she was the problem, so it’s not going to be overnight to get comfortable with it all.

Poop

About to have a pill camera, which will take pictures of my small intestine. Hopefully this test will identify the problem. Still looking for signs of Crohn’s Disease, due to calprotectin indicating inflammation.

I guess I’m currently in a low-level flare, as I’m a bit reactive. Mooned a bunch of cars late one evening when I had to go on the side of the road. I’ve gradually gained a bunch of food intolerances. Triggered that on Saturday, and had pain/gas/diarrhoea every meal time Sunday and Monday. It’s ok though - last year I gained a food intolerance to all food in existence, basically. So it’s not so bad, I just have to take care. 

Much more blood this summer than last time round, though.

Kind of tired of having any poop issues, but very grateful it’s not currently in the state it was last year. That was not fun. At all. Little bit worried because this has been gradually building over the past months, and I just hope it does not peak at the same level as it did last year. So far, so good.

So I think I can sum all this up as POSITIVE PROGRESS.

[snarkytransman]

Mother situation done and dealt with, went quite well.

Bye bye mother.

I suspect that there’ll be a messy situation now, but goddamn I can be stubborn when I want to be, so things can only move forward and away from her, not back.