Mar 1, 2025
Can my uterus not cramp I have nonbinary in my bio
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Can my uterus not cramp I have nonbinary in my bio
my american trans siblings, you will be under a fascist government once january rolls around. that fact is fucking terrifying. even for me as an aussie. (though your politics heavily affect us also bc all social media algorithms treat anyone posting in english as american)
take your time to mourn your freedom. you're losing sooo fucking much and it breaks my heart. the next two months you have left should be used for networking with irl trans people and preparing yourself mentally. let yourself morn but for fucks sake stay alive.
every day you exist is an act of resistance against those who wish you never existed in the first place.
so, how can you keep yourself existing?
irl? go back to 80's queer social policy. dont ask, dont tell. but definately use ways of signing to other queer people that you are one. with irl community, do your best to keep eachother afloat and help where you can. if you grow food, share it out. if you have a vacant room, add someone who needs a place to your household (ground rules and house rules important obvi). if you gotta go back in the closet do so, if you're already transitioning medically do your best to stock up on hrt during the next two months. your irl community is the best resource you have, so networking to find them while you an still do so freely in the next two months is critical.
social media is a tad more complicated so i'll break it down by site/company.
twitter: archive any important past posts you have made via screenshots and then just fucking nuke your account, delete all posts you have made individually to make sure and the delete the acc. elongated muskrat is the annoying orange's biggest financial supporter. he will turn over any and all info he government may request about trans and queer users. if you ever needed any more reasons to dump twitter thab the ones you have already had, take this one.
meta: in terms of facebook, if you still need it for family, archive posts abt being trans via screenshots, and delete said posts. if they were posted by supportive familiy members then get them to delete what they have posted of your identity for safety reasons, then only use for family you can only reach through it. for instagram and threads private any accounts you have that has your personal information attached other than ones for personal businesses. if you need public account access for reaching out,, make an account with only your first name listed, fill it with aesthetic shit or meme posts so it isn't easily linked to you as a person.
as far as i know with bluesky, more or less post as usual but stilll protect your personal information. first name and pronouns only. do not include location markers.
redit, hold all personal info verry close to your heat, give nothing away, have like 50 burners, you dont need karma.
youtube, if you only use it for viewing, use as normal. if you upload, do your best to not show ANY recognisable outdoor landmarks, keep personal info tight, and donot get into anything political. if you can take a hiatus that would be even better.
tumblr: post as normal minus locational and government info.
common thread here is do not reveal any personal shit at all and do your best to conceal what is already posted. back to 90s rules for most sites. unfortunately tech-literate bigots finding your info is a possibility and so you want to withhold as much as you can to avoid being located and identified.
general ruled (both irl and online):
you are dealing with fascists. anything out of line they will actively try to snuff out. if anyone st all tries to get you to talk about ANYTHING REMOTE POLITICAL in any form of public space, SHUT THE FUCK UP. completely shut it down with "i dont talk about politics" or "i dont like politics". yes it's the pussy's answer to get out of shit, but being a pussy in the presence of violent fascists keeps you alive. if they try to talk about palastine, shut the fuck up. if they try to talk about trans people, shut the fuck up. if they try to talk about abortion, shut the fuck up. if they try to talk about disability/meantal health. from new years onwards, you will treat any person in the US who tried to talk about any of that shit in public that isn't doing it for the sake of protest as a narc. you will only properly discuss it behind closed doors with trusted family, comunity and allies.
as of new years day, it is the job of all allies in the us to basically be human shields for not only queer communities, but disabled, migrant, and any form of non-white communities too. if you are cis, white, able bodied, and have been an american citizen from birth, and happen to be a decent person, you are the ones who gotta protect those who cant protect themselves or cant leave the country. yes even if you're queer. if you are a white cis queer person, you can hide your sexuality for 4 years. most trans and intersex people cannot hide their gender or traits.
to recap: for the next two months, mourn your freedom, connect with your local queer comunity. do not share any personal info anywhere online unless you have a buisness, and then keep said info to the bare minimum. if people try to talk to you in public, shut the fuck up. allies and white cis lgb must protect those who cant run or hide.
the next four years are gonna be hell. but just know that of it seems no one has your back, this trans man all the way in australia has your back. love from me, my cousin, and my wonderfully supportive mother. stay sane, aqy safe, stay together.
neurodivergent nonbinary people deserve so much more support then they are given. nonbinary spaces are often so judgmental towards neurodivergent people because of how they act or how they describe their gender. it’s honestly disgusting. stop bullying every nonbinary person you come across because you think they are “annoying” or that their gender doesn’t “make sense.” chances are you are just being ableist and ignorant.
Turned my pride flags into poi :P
Question for the non-binaries
Which one best fits your experience?
I refer to myself as "I / Me" and only have one voice in my head
I refer to myself as "I / Me" and have multiple voices in my head
I refer to myself as "I / Me" and don't have an internal dialogue
I refer to myself as "We / Our" and only have one voice in my head
I refer to myself as "We / Our" and have multiple voices in my head
I refer to myself as "We / Our" and don't have an internal dialogue
I alternate how I refer to myself and have one voice
I alternate how I refer to myself and have multiple voices
I alternate how I refer to myself and don't have an internal dialogue
A secret forgotten answer I will share in the tags / comments
No answer / Show Reslults
This has come up a few times when talking about the nonbinary experience with others. I'm very interested in the results. Also blah blah blah reblog for a bigger sample size
“As a queer person, I believe almost dogmatically in difference, in the idea that every single person is unique, with their own innate sense of self, and that it is this difference which brings all of us together as one.”
- Amrou Al-Kadhi
Who is Amrou Al-Kadhi?
• A nonbinary British-Iraqi writer, director, screenwriter, drag performer, and filmmaker whose work primarily focuses on queer identity, cultural representation and racial politics.
• At age 20 they created their drag persona, Glamrou, and began doing drag shows at their university. They are now a veteran drag artist and founded the drag troupe “Denim.”
The world needs more nblw content. If I have to be the only one who makes it, then I guess that’s my solemn duty.
In all honesty, I don't think my parents accept that I am nonbinary. I am still their little "girl" that was "a miracle".
I ask them to call me a different name and they still insist on calling me a name that isn't mine anymore. They use pronouns that aren't mine in the hopes to grasp a single thread to pull me back in to being what I once was before.
It feels like a shirt that too tight on my body. Like my parents are still trying to fit me in newborn baby clothes.
Recently I came out to my workplace where I feel safe, and I would rather work myself to death where I am than to be at home. I feel like I'm suffocating.
I go on long car drives and have "lunches with friends" so I don't have to spend anymore time with my family. I waste gas to get more, praying that my family notices one day that maybe they should have called their child by the name they ask and the prouns they prefer, but my dad never really notices much. My mother yells, upset that another child is nonbinary and chooses to use the preferred name but not the pronouns.
"How could she name herself this?!" Mom was upset for 3 days about it.
But does my name not matter, do my pronouns not matter? I know I am not your precious, smart, pretty daughter bit at least cares about me more than my birth givers ever could.