🔥🔥🔥 ( about the rpc, about the treatment of morally ambiguous characters, your topic of choice )
unpopular opinion time.
I absolutely HATE when people post constant guilt tripping/negativity on the dash. Like, shut the fuck uppppppp !!! You're ostracizing anyone and everyone who has reached out to you/who writes with you/who is trying to interact with you. Do you want pitty follows? Do you want pity interactions? Are you hoping that people will abandon writing with others to just spend every moment of their fucking day telling you how great you are? GO TOUCH GRASS. GET OUT OF YOUR PAJAMAS. GET THE CRUMBS OUT OF YOUR HAIR. SEE THE SUNSHINE. it is not tumblr's responsibility to brighten your day. In fact, tumblr is the worst place to expect something like that. It's a blackhole. and spouting negativity on the dash constantly is just going to chase people away so you're getting the opposite result of whatever it is you think you're after.
tumblr acts like morally ambiguous characters don't exist. The amount of times you go to a blog and it's 100% black or 100% white is fucking astounding to me. It's like people forget you're writing a human being (fantasy characters aside, excuse the description) who has complexities. they have layers. they are an onion !! Even when they claim to 'respect that [character] is not a great person', how many times is the blog full of nothing but excuses and uwu my baby is just so misunderstood someone please cuddle them posts?? there's a lot of that rampant in the tag for lucas but i think my biggest issue in the rpc itself was always with jaime and hook. literally had someone try to plot with me on killian once where they were like "she can sneak aboard his ship and he can show her how to stargaze. she can change him." and i was sitting there like "mate, this is a captain hook blog." so my overall unpopular opinion i guess, is that people on tumblr take morally ambiguous characters and either label them as 100% problematic or they focus on these little pieces of the characterization to make sure they have reasons/excuses for said character's actions. I don't get it. So the person sucks sometimes...who cares?? I suck sometimes. We all suck sometimes. That's what makes us interesting.
i believe that people who post constant hate anons, especially if said ask is a vague reference to a duplicate, are sending them to themselves. replies like "i know." and "yeah..." and "guess i'll delete..." - I don't have people like that on my dash anymore (i refuse. I'm not in charge of bolstering feelings) but it used to make me want to throw my laptop/pull my hair out. And I don't think people expect me to know when I'm like passive aggressively mentioned on any of my blogs (hook used to be especially bad but i think killian jones as captain hook is just universally accepted as my oc at this point), but I have a lot of friends and know a lot of people and I always know. And the same goes for when people do it about friends. We all know. We're not stupid. I shitpost on the dash like an idiot, but I swear my IQ is higher than that makes it seem. but yeah, when people constantly post hate anons and they aren't using them to educate said anon on a valid point .. I immediately am just like "yeah, that's you." please be smarter about it. make it believable. i beg of you. and if it's not you ... turn off anon, wtf.











