#not aroace

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

This close to making my own fanfic writing community on tumblr holy shit

- big one I got banned from for being pro ship and sayinf we shouldn’t harass people for a certain ship (not even that bad it was age gap 17 and 30 which yeah okay IRL awful but in fiction that’s nothing DLDR)

- another one didnt allow links from ao3??

- left another after they banned “non canon” ships

- current one has certain days your allowed to post certain things?? Youre not allowed to post ficlets unless it’s a Wednesday… funnt as I’ve legit seen so many people do it anyway?? this is like a long line of shit from them too may be the final straw. (I’ve legit NEVER been able to post anything there without a mod getting into my comments and asking me to either change something or remove the post… like I legit copied the style of another post there (ao3 stats update) and they got to keep theirs up but mine got removed for being “off topic” so)

Just, fuckinf hate communities honestly might be tumblrs worst feature

(Venting here as I know those mods are watching me on main now)

Anyone got decent writing communities I can join?

[miyanaxxi]

“Opeli is aroace”

Hi! No she’s not! She’s actually celibate! Aroace and celibate are most certainly not the same things, and it’s starting to bug me how many people are calling her aroace as opposed to celibate.

Clerics, priests, and other clergy all take vows of celibacy, meaning they choose to serve their religion and people but never a partner.

If you ship her with people, go ahead, not like I can stop you. If you want to call her aroace, sure, I can’t stop you. But I just want to address that Opeli is celibate, not aroace. Carry on.

[bambiluprime]

I'm going to explode.

People are saying he's confirmed aroace- I don't mind people saying that as a hc, but literally every time I go to the sources people have it NEVER says he's aromantic.

It's a great headcanon, but it's not canon.

Canonically, he's ace. If there is a source, like Viv's social medias or something, send it my way please. Cause I swear, everyone immediately goes "yeah, he's aroace" but it's not fully confirmed.

Again, wonderful head canon, but it's canonically false.

Also, the only time this really bothers me is when people comment on a fic of mine or smth, and they go "uh, actually he's canonically aroace, he wouldn't do that".

[octever]

On aroallo post. Well, maybe I misunderstood but it's okay to celebrate being allosexual too, right? People can love their sexualities and way it makes them experience things.

There is nothing wrong with being positive about your allosexuality. The point of that post came from how I felt my allosexuality shouldn’t be overshadowed by me being aromantic. Because I am not aroace, and I need the people to know that.

[our-aroace-experience]

drop this sunflower 🌻 into the inboxes of the blogs that make you happy! lets spread a little sunshine ☀️🩷

thank you! i appreciate it so much :,)

[your-very-rude-neighborhood-ace]

….that’s not how asexuality/aromanticism works

[bird-likes-to-fandom]

gonna write a (pre-romantic? qpr w/ flirting? romantic? i think it'll be up to interpretation) theyna coffee shop au oneshot thanks to @jasonandhisbrick's suggestion, i hope y'all are ready