So I have come out to a few of my friends, and they have treated me great since then. The only problem is that I have had one that just went straight foward and told me to come out to my family. Every single time I bring up my sexuality she tells me to come out. I've tried explaining to her why I cant come out yet(that is for another post) amd she just refuses to listen. Then another one of my friends, who discovered she was bi after I came out to her, after that she came out to our whole grade and I'm pretty sure her mom too. She also keeps saying I should come out because everyone was accepting of her. Saying everyone is SO supportive and there is no way anything could happen to me if I come out.
What these friends dont understand is that I have different relationships with everyone then they do. I'm not so sure what the first friend actually thinking, but I know exactly what my second friend is thinking. Since she came out she assumes everyone is going to treat me the same way. But that is just not how it is. I have a very religious male friend and we are actually really close. When I imagine how he might act when I come out, but whenever I voice my concern to her, she tells me he acted fine when she came out. I know for a fact he would have a strange reaction to it. That basically goes the same way to everyone else.
IDK. I was just ranting and wondering if anyone has advise.
