i really wanna make a discord server just because all the ones i can find are Too Big and your voice instantly gets drowned out among hundreds of others... but issues.
i'd want it to be 18+. there's a whole plethora of reasons but mostly it boils down to "it only takes one bad actor to fuck up everything in a minor + adult mixed space, regardless if the bad actor is a minor or an adult in the situation"
i'd want it to be pretty small...? semi private/whitelisted? like i wouldn't have a huge checklist or whatever but just a small hangout place basically.
how many people would actually Join?
how many people would actually talk???








