Why it feels wrong for men to call lesbians ‘hot’ :
It often feels wrong when a man calls a lesbian “hot” because it can reduce a woman's identity to a sexual object for male consumption, disregarding her sexual orientation and humanity. Such comments are frequently perceived as fetishization—valuing a woman specifically because she is a lesbian—rather than simply recognizing her beauty, which can feel disrespectful and dismissive of her boundaries.
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