Hey! How was your Christmas? Hope you had a lovely time 🥰. Also how are things going with the guy who you’ve been speaking to from Bumble? I was wondering if you have any flirting advice/tips? There’s this guy at work who I’m crushing on and everyone says we flirt but I’m terrible at knowing whether that’s true or if that’s just how guys are? I’ve never had a bf or anything romantic before so I’m bad at this sort of stuff. I get embarrassed and try and play it cool around guys I fancy +
+ but then it ends up just coming across as disinterest and like I’m being cold, which is the exact opposite of what I’m trying to convey 😭. I guess it comes from a place of insecurity and fear of putting myself out there because nothing has ever happened before? Wow, now I’m self-diagnosing myself 😂. Anyway, if you or any of your anons have any advice on how to stop doing this ana how to be better at flirting, that would be greatly appreciated 🥰🥰
God if I’ve learned anything it’s to be careful with going for someone you work with 😂 But if you think you can handle it then I’d just start throwing some flirty bits out there. Say you like his outfit and purposefully go and talk to him more. You’re probably flirting without even realising so if there’s any moments you come away from a bit flustered, that was probably a flirt! Honestly I’m terrible at actively flirting but you probably do it without being aware. I had that too where other people were saying we were so obvious and I was like.... what?? One thing I would also say in regards to guys is that you can always tell whether one has a thing for you. Even if you are the most insecure person (aka me!) there’s an intuitive part of you that can tell. So just take it easy, remember you’re beautiful and amazing and this guy is bloody lucky that you’re even interested in him! The one who is meant for you is meant for your most authentic self ❤️
As for bumble guy, we’re possibly going to meet up next week because I’m gonna have a free flat where I’m on my own, he’s now got covid immunity for a couple months and I want to start 2021 on a good note!!