Someone asked me yesterday how to know if a person is right for you or how to know whether he/she is a potential spouse.
I told them may be i am not the right person to ask about this. What i knkw for sure is that people look for what they lack in their lives. If someone is poor and always struggling with money since the beginning they will look for a person who is stable financially. If a person had a rough time with their family and their parents then they look for love and affection in another person. The one who understands them and wipes their tears off. Hoping they woudn't have to cry alnoe anymore. Then i said no matter what shortcomings a person has there is just one thing you can notice in a person and you will have an idea whether you want to live with them or not. And that is anger. How they deal with anger and frustration. That will determine if they are suitable for you. And it works both ways also. How they deal with the situation when they themselves are angry and how they deal with you when you are angry. Anger management by the fear of Allah is the most important thing to live life peacefully. Once you have your control over that you wont have half as many problems as you do now.
