there is no difference between a trans person who is also a bad person and a trans person who is also a good person, apart from the fact that one is a bad person and one is a good person.
they are still both trans people.
someone being a bad person does not invalidate their gender identity, and it definitely does not give you the chance to misgender them.
i'm sure we can all guess who I'm talking about, but if not, there is a transwoman on tiktok called lily tino.
i do not consume her content, and I don't want to. she has done and said inappropriate things, such as harassing people on the street, and has a history of sexual assault. these are awful things, and i condemn them all. however. she is still a she.
just because she appears 'too masculine' for you, does not change the fact that she is a transwoman.
as soon as we start creating exceptions to who dignifies our respect, and who we will respect the pronouns of, this community becomes a lot less safe for everyone.
pronouns are not a weapon for you to use against people you don't like, even if that person truly is a bad person.






