#objectum date ideas

[this-is-anti-objectum]

Hello tuba kisser again uhm..

Do you like have any ideas of things we could uhm.. do together like romanticly?? (other than like playing and cleaning..)

-🏆💗

Of course! Make case decorations, like keychains for handles and rings (if the case has rings), watch a movie or show together, I know sometimes for the holidays people will wrap tinsel around the bell and body, kinda like a sash, spend time with it in general, like cuddling.

I'm sure other instrument lovers can come up with more.

With this I feel it mandatory to reference this fish in a birdcage post from last year

[objectum-culture-is]

Does anyone have conceptum date ideas? Im dating an object but they dont physically exist anymore (torn down & they built something new boo👎) so i have to date them in a more conceptum way if that makes sense. Ive just been imagining dates with them till now but idk if that even counts as going on a date + its getting repetitive

I personally can't think of anything off the top of my head, but I encourage anyone who has an idea to share! ^^

[objectum-culture-is]

Do you have any idea on how I can show affection and go on dates with my computer? I wish I could be better at showing my love for her. I’ve seen you give others advice so I thought I should ask.

Thank you! :D

My advice is to take her some places that are places you like to go, and introduce her to them. If you like to go to cafés, take her to your favorite. Or take her to a library. Even a park if you're taking her on a picnic date can be a good place to show her! Make sure she knows you're doing this for her, even if you use the veil of "I'm doing work and that why I'm on my laptop here" to shade what you're doing. These days, laptops are a common and un-judged object to just be seen in any almost any public space, so it's not like going to any place with free Wi-Fi would be weird with your partner, or if you do art with her, then more of the world is opened to you if the art program you use isn't directly connected to Wi-Fi

[objectum-culture-is]

I really love my lil guy, He's so beautiful.

he's a figure of my favorite character but also of one of our (fictive)headmates that I'm also in a relationship with, and he's about 6 inches I think? he's a pretty big figurine :3

When I first got him, we took pictures everywhere. I'd place him on trees outside and have him pose, I'd take him to see the sunset in our backyard. (and also taking a picture of him with the sunset because ofc) but uhm.. he's also seen me at my rock bottom. I have anger issues and tend to punch, yell and scream but it's never been at him. He knows he's my weak spot, I'm working on my anger and have been ever since I was a little kid but I'm doing it for myself and him. To be quite honest, I've neglected him a lot. Especially the first few months after I got him but after realizing I'm objectum just yesterday- I've tried to make up my neglect towards him by just, loving on him. I also have suspected PDs and I really don't want to just love him when it's convenient for me, I had a past horrible relationship with my childhood plush and it traumatized me if I'm being honest.. it was really bad, and this guy, fuck he's so nice to me and patient. He's so much better than her :( and I've gotta make up for not being there for him a lot, any suggestions on dates or other things I could do? He says not to worry about it and that he's ok but I still wanna do something special for my love :) thanks!

-Viv

Dates you could go on with him could be things like going out to a restaurant with him, taking him to his favorite places, making him things to show your appreciation, things like that. You could also buy him accessories and take his picture with them.

The possibilities are basically endless when it comes to date ideas ^^

I'm sorry that you've had bad experiences before, but it's super nice that you're trying to make it up by having a better relationship with your current partner ^^ I hope things work out between yall, yall seem like a healthy couple