Damn. So my little cousin jesscia was about to get married literally in two weeks, until now. The wedding has been completely cancelled!
Breaks my heart for my cousin but at the same time I’m glad they’re calling it off NOW then it being all confirmed.
This is my theory about marriage.
Marriage isn’t suppose to be a tradition, it’s suppose to be a desire a feeling. The feeling of wanting to be with someone for the rest of your life with the bad and good that life challenges us with. See marriage has always been a way to ignore the real problems in life. We grow up thinking that it’s a MUST, if we don’t get married by a certain age we’re failures to society.
I have always been against marriage cause I rather be in a devoted lovable relationship with zero worries about a title. I just don’t see the point of it, I know if I want to spend the rest of my life with someone I’ll just do it without having to sell my soul to some court. In my family, we really haven’t had the best role models. We legit have ZERO marriages in this family that is unconditional love or truly love each other. I know marriage is ridiculously hard ... but if you can’t go through the bumps as girlfriend and boyfriend, just don’t.
What makes me laugh is that I’m the biggest anti married type of person and for some reason something tells me that my relationship is going to be the prime example of what unconditional love & hard working campaignship ... n probably married ...