Le trigramme ☱ 兌 Dui représente originellement les vapeurs lumineuses chaudes, puis un lac ou un marais, le soleil de l’ avant-midi, le sud-est. l’annonce de l’ été
Mutation 3 ( grand yang + petit yin) :
on vient nous prier, on nous demande d'intercéder.
impasse.
Et son complémentaire (Yin / Yin / Yang - Yin / Yin / Yang) : H 52,
Mutation 3 (grand yin + petit yang)
Le trigramme ☶ 艮 Gen représente la montagne, le soleil couchant, le nord, l’hiver.
arrêt, immobilisation de la région des reins, une porte fermée à l'aide d'une barre, la terre des ancêtres.
sensation d'un couteau qui déchire les os et les muscles du dos.
scorpion caché sous une pierre.
danger.
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english below
(in Anaël Assier - le livre des mutations)
Yang / Yang / Yin - Yang / Yang / Yin (Hexagram 58)
The trigram ☱ Dui originally represents warm, luminous vapors, then a lake or marsh, the mid-morning sun, the southeast, and the herald of summer.
Mutation 3 (Greater Yang + Lesser Yin):
One comes to beseech us; we are asked to intercede. An impasse.
And its complement (Yin / Yin / Yang - Yin / Yin / Yang): Hexagram 52,
Mutation 3 (Greater Yin + Lesser Yang)
The trigram ☶ Gen represents the mountain, the setting sun, the north, and winter.
A halt, immobilization of the kidney region, a gate barred shut, the land of ancestors. The sensation of a knife tearing through the bones and muscles of the back. A scorpion hidden beneath a stone. Danger.
my grandma is 85 and yesterday she said the one thing she regrets in life is being agreeable, polite and obedient. she believed she must be content with whatever comes her way and never fuss. it led her to making objectively poor decisions for her and her family because she never wanted to be a bother, to seem demanding or ungrateful.
the plot twist is that I've always known my grandma as a mostly disagreeable, demanding and ungrateful person which means to me that later in life she vastly overcompensated for her youthful agreeability. but that day she also said 'remember you are loved by grandma' as I was leaving - the first time she used the word 'love' with me, indirectly but still.
what I'm taking from this is LET'S NOT REPEAT GRANDMA'S MISTAKES. I don't think she consciously meant it that way, but I see this as her matriarchal blessing for me to stop being a nice girl. a message I very much needed.