Hello!! Could you do a onewe reaction "being jealous" please ?? 💚💚💚
[Onewe] Being jealous when another boy is close to you
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would be one super-jealous baby
despite him being the oldest I really don’t think he’d be the most mature in handling jealousy
he’d be okay with you talking to other guys, but he’d be alarmed if you’re good friends with a guy
of course he knows that he’s being unreasonable most of the time, but sometimes - when he’s either stressed or drunk - his jealousy gets the better of him
that’s when you really have to be careful
because he will have this inner fight between knowing his jealousy is unreasonable and the feeling of jealousy that just eats away at him
until one day he lashes out at you for it
you already suspected that there’s something wrong with him lately, but didn’t know how to talk about it
and now that he’s yelling at you because of that one friend of yours you know what’s up
you react surprised and are a bit intimidated by him yelling, so you take a few steps back
that makes him realize he scared you, so now he feels bad about that as well
he apologizes and slowly tries to approach you, lowering his head a little to seem less intimidating
you let him come close after all and you two talk it out in the end
you’re thankful he opened up to you and that you now know what he was worried about
and he’s thankful that you’re calmly assuring him that he’s the only one you love and that his jealousy really is unreasonable
I really don’t think Harin would be one to be super jealous
like you can have as many close male friends as you like
deep inside he knows he’s the only one you love
and even when you’re really touchy around your guy friends, chances are he’s friends with them as well and trusts them to respect that you’re in a relationship
therefore that kind of skinship doesn’t bother him
one thing he absolutely cannot deal with is strangers coming on to you
like especially when you two are out to party at night
if you’re with a group of friends you’ll naturally get separated sometimes
and he trusts you not to do anything with anyone else
but when he sees other guys neither of you know wanting to dance with you or trying to buy you a drink, he’ll get furious
he’ll try to bear it for a while and see if the other leaves you alone
but if you’re clearly uncomfortable and he just won’t leave, he will walk in there and take your hand and lead you out of the bad situation
all while glaring at the guy who tried to hit on you, telling him to kindly f*ck off with his eyes only
he will take care of you afterwards and make sure to make you feel safe in case you felt super creeped out
he also won’t leave your side for the rest of the evening, that’s for sure
he’d put so much effort into hiding his jealousy that it would be even more obvious than it already is
really, he trusts you and he doesn’t want to be jealous, but when you keep talking about that new friend of yours he just can’t help it
listening to you going on and on about him and seeing how your face lights up everytime you mention your friend actually started hurting him
not because he isn’t happy for you that you seem to have found a really good friend
but because he’s afraid you don’t talk like that about him, and that actually makes him very sad and frustrated
but since he feels like he shouldn’t be jealous and just trust you instead, he’ll keep beating around the bush and refusing to talk to you about it
until one day it gets too much for him and he ends up yelling at you
he’s about as surprised as you are, but even more so he hates that he yelled at you
and you notice that, so you offer talking about his jealousy again, and this time he finally opens up about it
you assure him that this friend of yours is really nothing more than a friend and you promise not to talk so much about him if it hurts Hyungu
in the end you manage to leave it behind the two of you
be aware he’ll be extra affectionate towards you the next few days and that he won’t let go of you for the rest of the day though
he will be so obviously jealous it’s painful to watch
probably not right after you started dating, but after a while it will start really bugging him to see you even just talking to other guys, and hell breaks loose if you were to show any skinship with any of them
his natural response to that would be to become super clingy
and you usually have no problem with a bit of clinginess, or you wouldn’t be dating him in the first place
but lately it’s been getting too much even for you
so you become annoyed and try to create some distance between you two
which in turn will make him feel rejected
and… god can’t you two just talk it out?
it’ll probably come down to your mutual friends finding out and persuading you two to have a serious conversation, or you’d both just keep avoiding the problem
and when you do finally talk, expect it to be a very emotional one
chances are he’ll cry, and you’ll probably cry too
but you’re also both going to be very honest with each other and come out of it trusting each other more than before
jealousy will probably become an issue for him again, but you now know how to handle it and he promises to tell you right away whenever he feels jealous so you can work it out together
and truthfully speaking you don’t mind giving him some extra attention here and there to make sure he knows just how much you love him and that you’d never choose anyone over him
I feel like he’d be similar to Harin here
he doesn’t seem like the type to become jealous easily
and he also knows he can trust you with his whole heart, or you two wouldn’t be seriously dating to begin with
however if he ever does end up getting jealous, usually if you don’t have a lot of time to meet him because of school or work, he’ll try to let you know as soon as your schedule isn’t so packed anymore
so when you meet him the next time and it isn’t just for a quick lunch date, expect him to want to seriously talk it out with you
honestly once it’s out and if you’re understanding as well, it won’t be much of a problem for him
just give him a little bit of reassurance and he will figure out the rest on his own
once you talked about it he will also make sure to take extra good care of you and show you little gestures of love more frequently the next few days
just so you know how much he appreciates you
and how thankful he is that you’re so understanding