https://www.tumblr.com/boyheretic/798954014789206017/i-love-the-scene-where-dean-pretends-to-be-from
Canon!Dean: slaps his brother’s ass out in the public, calls his mom “a babe” with unashamed lust in his eyes, makes a rape joke to his brother carrying an angel’s grace inside his body (calls Sam a “teen mom”), rubs Sam’s toothbrush in his dirty armpit knowing that Sam is a total clean girl and would hate it
Fandom: Sam is the incestuous perv, he would force Dean into an incest relationship and Dean would let him because “he can’t say no to Sammy”
hmm, yes, the woobification of hyperviolent straight men (& hypermasculinization of whoever they're paired with) is a strange, yet oddly popular, staple of many a fandom.
personally, i cannot relate to this desire for role-reversal, because i love canonically perverted freaks and want to keep them that way (or make them worse). imo, dean is hot and interesting precisely because he is abusive and dirty and charming and obsessive and loving and incestous and cruel and funny and perverted all in one delicious package!
(on a serious note, though; i'm all for people having fun in whatever way they want, but i do wish more people would tag role-reversal content with "ooc" or similar. it used to totally normal and acceptable to use various tags to indicate when fanworks had characterizations that were obviously not based on canon, but now i almost never see them used & i suspect that this contributes to a lot of unescassary frustrations)