This is kinda just screaming into the void and the overall gist can be generally applied to any fandom atp but...
I've been a fan of transformers since childhood, but I stopped following the fandom and the media in like. 2017? So it kinda feels like I got on the last chopper outta 'nam cause I wasn't around to witness the voltron poison spread into this specific fandom (and I know ship wars and discourse has been around since forever). It's just really sad to see how vocal everyone is (or maybe not everyone, hard to tell) about their hatred for "disgusting" "immoral" people who just enjoy fictional 'problematic' ships.
A previous anon said it better than me but what someone enjoys in fiction is generally not indicative of their attitude towards that subject irl. Noncon, incest, etc, what have you. But I get that most active fans now are children/young adults (given the target audience of most of the shows, this is fair) so everything will seem black and white to them. I can admit that I was like that too once lol.
But... these younger fans/antis have *got* to understand that "incestuous" ships like sunnysides have been around for decades. Shipping the gestalts together, the trines together, etc. has been around for decades. (Personally I don't understand how the gestalts and trines could be considered incest but again. I left the fandom 7 years ago so I might be missing something). They've been around since before most of these kids were even born. The earliest surviving tf fic on ao3 I could find is from 2002. You may be able to drive some of these "disgusting" people off the internet, but not everyone. You have *got* to learn to live and let live, and to curate your own space.
To be fair, I haven't been following any of the shows after TFP, but I just wanted to tack on that frankly, I think the anti sentiment has gone overboard with some of these ships that are considered so 'taboo'. Sunnysides and ships along those lines, I can understand. But MegOP is... abusive?? MegaStar is abusive?? OPBee is pedo and incest (how???)??? It just gives me flashbacks to people saying that whirlgate is pedo...
Idk. bAcK iN mY dAy people were civil and knew how to use the mute and block functions. Now, kids (and some adults) these days think it's okay to send thinly veiled (or not veiled at all) death threats over robots. It's just sad. I'm kinda glad I left when I did.