Dear baby trans mascs
You will have the lesbian phase. Everyone has the lesbian phase. That phase where people look at you and think 'oh they're just a lesbian' it tends to be what people think when a feminine appearing person dresses very masculinely.
Do not let this deter you. The lesbian phase is the phase before the teen phase. What's the teen phase? It's when you pass as a boy but not as a man. I've walked into a bank before with my mom and was genuinely asked if I was there to open a child's bank account. Reader, I am almost 20.
Same thing with doctors offices, I go to the adult side and they say the children area is over there meaning they think I'm 17 or younger.
Reader, again, I am almost 20.
But this post isn't about the teen phase it's about the lesbian phase, my honest advice? It's all about swagger. Or basically how you walk, or basically confidence, if you believe you're a guy and show you know you're a guy, people are going to see that and think you're a guy. You're a man and you know you're a man and when people see that they'll be less likely to question it.
I practice swagger by not leaving any other option. I am a man. Plain and simple there is no other option there is no doubt in my mind. I am a man and no one else can tell me otherwise. It's not that I'm refusing to see any other option it's just the simple fact there is none when it comes to me. I am a man. Not a masculine female. A man.
You cannot have doubts. Well you can in the beginning but when you realize for sure you identify as a man you need to get rid of any doubts you have about it, it can subconsciously affect how you present yourself. Which is why I'm saying you are a man. You're the manliest man and you're gonna kick ass when you get to that point of confidence. You don't have to have confidence in your voice or your looks, (though you should since your voice and looks are awesome) just have confidence that you are a man and that will be enough for others to treat you as such.
