“It takes first of all a lot of love and want to change. and you also have to want it enough that you’d be willing to change something in yourself, something fundamental. and that’s a very difficult thing to do. You have to really want the relationship and love your partner in a way that moves you to transcend yourself. You know everyone hopes, “oh if I could just change something in my partner if they were just this way, that way, it would be better,” but really the only change that happens is if you crave the relationship. Love the person enough that you’re gonna move beyond something in yourself.” -Dr. Orna Guralnik











