#overcoming selfhate

[manyofnine]

There it is. My old friend "Doubt" whispering in my ear. I am a wonderful person. I am great, and beautiful and intelligent.

I do my hardest to be kind.

But if i need to put an consious effort in being kind... Doesn't it imply that i am Not?

[manyofnine]

This woulderful reddit thread by ryan01 is a really great rulebook if you need a place to start loving yourself, forgiving yourself and trying to be the best You, you can be.

The four rules:

"No more Zerodays"

"Be grateful to yourself"

"Forgive yourself"

"Erxercise and books"

Are really great tools for living your best life.

(https://www.reddit.com/r/getdisciplined/comments/1q96b5/i_just_dont_care_about_myself/cdah4af)

Share this to ppl that need it, take it to heart and have a great fucking day.

You guys are awesome.

Do your best, be your best, live your best life.

[manyofnine]

Do no harm but take no shit.

The motto so many ppl love.

You guys need to realise though:

You are included in that statement.

Don't harm yourself and don't take any bullshit from yourself.

That means don't insult yourself, and that means to treat yourself with some fucking respect. So motherfuckers and fatherfuckers in my audience:

Be kind!

Not nice, not admirable, not a doormat. Kindness.