sometimes i wonder about marriages.
like, what do you have to do to make other people not to get tired of you?
how do you know if the other's feeling secure in the relationship?
do you, do you stay because you love them or do you stay because you respect them?
or do you just stay because of the children?
could love really lasts that long?
and for those older people(couple) who (i know) can't stand with their own spouses do you just... stay there? in the marriage? because i just kinda know my grandparents are very fucking different than the other amd it just made me wonder, do they stick together bc they love each other or is it out of obligation? or is it just respect? I can't get over how my nan always yells or give snide remarks towards him. I hate her, she's always so negative.
I just dont get how this works, and what if it's my bloody time to marry but i just can't get.... through whatever the fuck it is?