i hold grudges!!!!!!! and don't forgive or forget.
i can randomly become sarcastic, but only when i'm really comfortable with someone.
i tend to laugh/chuckle/smile awkwardly when i'm feeling embarrassed or uncomfortable or awkward or anything like that.
I get really tough headaches that are a mix between tension headaches and a migraine (when i'm really anxious/overthinking something i have going on for the day) and they cause me to not be able to do anything but sleep (i take it as like, my body forcing me to rest lolli).
lowkey have anger issues (can control them, but i get angry inwards and i barely let it show).
i don't rest until i fulfill what i set my mind to, no matter how long it takes.
i can't control my facial expressions whatsoever... i can be quiet for hours and my face will tell u everything i'm thinking.
i'm pretty fidgety, especially with my hair.
when i'm really comfortable with someone i sometimes randomly playfully poke them/"hit" them (not roughly, just playfully).
Since a really young age, i've had a slouching problem, and i struggle with sitting up-right and i've had back pain.
I struggle with sleeping/i'm a really light sleeper... i guess i could say i have insomnia.
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hobbies/likes: Singing, Acting, Reading, (belly) dancing, analyzing characters, listening to music (mostly pop, dance/disco/r&b and stuff that makes me feel confident)
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dislikes: jealous/envious people, rude/mean people, being abandoned, not having control (of myself/life... not necessarily others), people who are always so negative and are always worrying and causing me to be even more anxious/worried than i already am, people who over-exaggerate a story/something that happened & add untrue details (ESPECIALLY if it's a story about me/involves me)
Marvel Match:
Matt Murdock
Matt is the kind of person who would understand you without needing you to explain every little thing.
You’re quiet, anxious, perceptive, and emotionally intense beneath the surface, and Matt is someone who naturally notices the things other people miss, your nervous habits, your awkward smiles when uncomfortable, the way you hide anger inside yourself instead of exploding outward.
He’d never shame you for your sensitivity or anxiety. If anything, he’d become quietly protective over you because he knows how exhausting it is to carry emotional weight all the time.
Why you work together:
Your intelligence and perceptiveness genuinely impress him
His calm confidence helps ground your anxious thoughts
You both struggle internally but keep pushing forward anyway
He respects your trust issues instead of forcing closeness
Your sarcasm would also catch him off guard in the best way possible once you’re comfortable around him.
The relationship would feel:
late-night talks in dim apartments
him gently rubbing your back during migraines
comfortable silence while reading together
playful pokes from you while he smirks knowingly
He’d love that even though you’re shy, you’re still deeply passionate and determined underneath everything.
The Walking Dead Match:
Glenn Rhee
Glenn is honestly one of the safest and healthiest matches for you emotionally.
You need someone patient, loyal, emotionally intelligent, and genuinely kind, and Glenn is all of those things naturally. He wouldn’t intensify your anxiety; he’d ease it.
Your quieter personality works beautifully with his gentle warmth because he’s the kind of person who makes others feel included without overwhelming them.
Why you fit:
He’d never make you feel “too sensitive”
Your awkwardness would actually be comforting to him
He values honesty and emotional sincerity
He’d understand your fear of abandonment deeply
You holding grudges and struggling with trust would make Glenn extra careful with your feelings because once he commits to someone, he’s incredibly loyal.
The dynamic:
him making you laugh during stressful moments
you overanalyzing situations while he calmly reassures you
soft teasing once you fully trust him
him instinctively pulling you closer when you’re anxious
He’d also absolutely adore your singing voice, even if you were shy about it.
Death Note Match:
L Lawliet
This match is dangerously compatible intellectually.
You and L would connect through observation, analysis, and quiet understanding. He’d immediately notice how expressive your face is despite how quiet you are, and honestly find it fascinating.
Your anxious overthinking and intuitive personality would actually help you keep up with him mentally, which is rare for L.
Why this works:
Both of you are introverted and awkward in different ways
You understand people deeply without needing constant interaction
Your blunt honesty would amuse him
He’d appreciate your persistence and determination
Oddly enough, your playful poking and subtle affection would become one of the few forms of touch he genuinely tolerates comfortably.
The relationship would feel like:
staying awake at ridiculous hours together
quietly judging people together
analyzing movies or people for fun
him absentmindedly sharing sweets with you
L would also trust your intuition more than most people’s logic.
One Piece Match:
Trafalgar D. Water Law
Law is basically your emotional equivalent in pirate form.
He’s reserved, observant, emotionally guarded, intelligent, sarcastic, and secretly caring, exactly the type of person who would understand your quieter emotions without demanding constant openness.
You’d probably bond through mutual dry humor and shared annoyance at loud or dramatic people.
Why he’s your best One Piece match:
He respects independence and personal space
Your trust issues wouldn’t scare him away
He understands emotional walls better than most
Your sensitivity balances his colder exterior
The relationship dynamic:
sarcastic banter as affection
you sitting near him reading while he works
subtle physical affection instead of excessive PDA
him quietly helping during your headaches without making a huge deal about it
Law would also deeply admire your determination. Even if you’re anxious or exhausted, you still keep going, and he respects strength like that more than flashy confidence.
Overall Pattern
Your matches all share a few important traits:
emotionally intelligent without being overwhelming
patient with your anxiety and trust issues
loyal and dependable
calm enough to not drain you emotionally
capable of understanding quiet affection and subtle care
You suit people who see past your nervousness and awkwardness and recognize how deeply thoughtful, observant, and devoted you actually are.
This one was tricky, not going to lie. I went back and forth with my options based on the information you gave, @pablotheparrot , and I decided on two because it was just too complicated to choose 1!
The first Hamilton character I’d ship you with is:
Hercules Mulligan! For every INFP, there needs to be a partner who is an opposite. Someone who is outgoing, loud, and exuberant but can provide solitude in private and have values strongly imposed. Hercules would be an odd adjustment at first. As someone who is used to the grandeur and flashy parts of relationships, he takes a step back and reevaluates his own intents and purposes when it comes to you. Prioritizing the comfort of you in public settings, keeping sweets in his pockets for when there is none in a pub, always willing to keep up with the way your mind works and the person he truly loves to see unravel. You both are imaginative and daydream of lives beyond your current status—which in the pleasures of your shared spaces, bring him more peace than any pint of beer ever would.
The second Hamilton character I’d ship you with is:
John Laurens! We’re going to keep it with it Hamilton’s inner circle for these pairings because his historic friends are seemingly matches for you! John is passionate, willing, and adventurous. He pushes you to be comfortable outside of what routines you have established for yourself and believes in you deeply. He’s kind, caring, and wishes to see a change in the world you also envision every day. John is soft, gentle, and puts your wants and needs first and well beyond his own. You both have a curious mind that loves to engage in a multitude of different things and varying moments in time, but there is always a constant in the ways you love one another. How you care for each other and maintain that even with a million distractions, the selflessness of the other always comes first.
Congrats on your milestone, that is huge!!! Ok....I would love a pairing with a Pedro boy. I am in my 30s, curvy with curly hair and glasses. I love cooking, crafting, reading, writing, and watching shows/movies. I collect rocks/crystals and love my two dogs. I'm an INFJ, shy Leo, Ravenclaw. Let me know what you think <3 Congrats again!!!
Thank you so much!!! Ahhhhh fellow Ravenclaw bby!
I can honestly see you with Frankie! He’d absolutely adore your curls and your curves, and his hands would be on you constantly.
I can picture the two of you on a Friday night curled up on the couch watching a show together and just enjoying each other’s company. He’d let you cook all his favorites, and take the left overs to poker night with the boys, and laugh at the jealousy they’d feel because he has you to cook for him. He’d try to do crafts with you, but would spend more time goofing off with the crafts trying to make you laugh.
He wouldn’t get the crystal collecting if there’s a religious part to them, but he’s super supportive, and would bring you home pretty rocks he finds while out because he saw it and thought of you. His favorite part of the day would be at night when he takes your book from your hand before bed, and carefully pulls your glasses from your face, kissing your nose before setting them on the nightstand because it’s time to sleep, and holding you to him makes for the most comfy night ever.
Hey there you funky little monsterfucker can I get uuuhhhhh o r c b o y f r i e n d being the most snuggly thing ever
He picks you up from whatever you are doing, lifting you up and off the ground to carry you to your bed, his strong, thick arms wrapped tightly around you to insure you don’t fall. He lays down with you, arms still around you, and nuzzles against your cheek, murmuring softly as you giggle, and he can’t help but chuckle, as he squeezes you gently, a happy smile on his face as he presses a kiss to your forehead and closes his eyes, holding you close to his chest.
Hello, I'd like to request a male matchup for MHA!
Pronouns: she/her
Age: 22
MBTI: ISTP
Enneagram: 9w1
Personality: I'm reserved, patient, humorous. Also, quiet, sensitive, and a hopeless romantic (basically, I have an idealistic and optimistic view of love). Occasionally, I feel insecure or overthink, though I've been working on my confidence. I'm a mix between introvert and extrovert though, I'm mostly an introvert. To strangers, I seem aloof, shy, or free-spirited. My friends describe me as trustworthy and kind.
Hobbies: listening to music, drawing, writing stories and poems, solving crosswords and word searches, doing find the difference puzzles, playing trivia games, reading, watching movies
Likes: art, books, poems, nature, jigsaw puzzles, animals, plushies, music, learning languages, violin performances, movies (specifically, fantasy and romance)
Love languages: quality time (giving and receiving), acts of service (also giving and receiving)
Dislikes: impatience, pushiness, perfumes with strong scents, unsolicited advice, being interrupted
Appearance: My eyes are round, dark brown and height is 4'9". I have long, straight black hair and a round face. Also, my skin is lightly tanned; in my country (Philippines), the term for my skin tone is Morena. Both of my legs have a mole (birthmark) on them; I've been getting new moles too.
Style: It depends on the occasion. Usually, I wear pastel colors or light colors and a ring on my finger. Also, I like wearing shirts with skirts and flats. My favorite aesthetics are light academia, fairycore, delicate sweet.
Ideal partner: Someone patient and a good listener. Confident, kind-hearted also loyal. Speaks their mind (straightforward, honest) and is protective but not controlling.
Other:
- For my college practicum, I was a teaching assistant.
- I have a naturally deep voice, which I can be insecure of.
- I have one dog and one cat.
Thanks!
My Hero Academia Match
Your quiet nature + his calm presence
Shoto Todoroki
Why he fits you
Neither of you needs constant noise or attention. You’d naturally fall into a peaceful rhythm together.
Your sensitivity + his gentleness
Shoto is careful with people he cares about. He wouldn’t dismiss your feelings or rush you, he’d take the time to understand you properly.
Your idealistic view of love + his sincerity
He may not be flashy, but when he loves, it’s genuine, steady, and honest, exactly the kind of love you believe in.
Your relationship dynamic
Your overthinking + his reassurance
He’s straightforward and honest, so you’d never have to guess how he feels. That quiet clarity would help ease your doubts.
Studying or reading together in comfortable silence
Him listening while you talk about stories, poems, or ideas
You two spending quality time doing simple things, walks, movies, or puzzles
Him doing small acts of service (bringing you something you like, helping without being asked)
Your love languages match beautifully, quality time and acts of service, so your relationship would feel natural and fulfilling without needing big, dramatic gestures.
What he’d love about you
Your creativity, your writing, drawing, and artistic mind
Your kindness and patience with others
The calm comfort you bring just by being there
Your soft, romantic outlook on love
He’d also find your voice comforting, even if you feel insecure about it, it would stand out to him in a good way.
Overall
This relationship is soft, steady, and deeply genuine.
Shoto gives you:
emotional safety
patience
quiet loyalty
And you give him:
warmth
creativity
a gentle kind of love that feels like home
It’s the kind of connection that grows slowly, but lasts.
Hey there!! Congratulations on your follower milestone! Also, I didn't mean to unfollow you just now, lol, tumblr keeps moving things around and I don't like it. Anyway, I'd like to ask for a Pedro boy pairing.
I am in my 40s, 5'7" and kind of round and squishy. I've got long hair, down to my mid-back when I wear it down. I am a Virgo and an introvert until you get me talking about something I'm interested in and then I will not shut up. I have a tendency to infodump. I've been told I have mama bear vibes. I get very protective of people I care about.
I like to work with my hands, whether that means drawing or crocheting or building things for my job. I also love to cook, though I don't really consider myself a foodie. I'm not always good at expressing my feelings, most of my caring for people comes out as acts of service.
You’re totally fine! Tumblr keeps moving things around and it’s bound to happen. Thank you for coming back!
You honestly sound like such an amazing person, and you know who would appreciate every quality about you?
Din Djarin.
When he first met you, he was attracted to that Mama Bear quality, and how fiercely you protect those you consider friends and family. It gave him confidence to leave the kid in your care, knowing he’d be safe if anyone dared mess with him.
And he notices that your hands are always busy- making things for him or Grogu, cooking, or putting together things around the Crest to improve it. You’ve made the cramped space more homey, and when you hand him a hand crocheted blanket for his little bunk, it melts the heart behind his beskar.
Your age brings added wisdom to every conversation you have with him, and he enjoys getting you started on a topic you like, just to hear you talk. He’s emotionally constipated, but you have the same love language- acts of service- and it just seems inevitable that the two of you realize how much you care about each other when you keep doing things for one another.
He loves curling up with you in his bunk, feeling how soft you are around him, soothing his hard edges until he falls apart with you. His hands are everywhere all the time, holding you close to him. In the dark of the ship, he’d run his bare fingers through your long hair and secretly hope for a future where you can see his face, and he can look in your eyes openly, and tell you every way he loves you from the bottom of his soul.
I have brown curly hair, brown eyes, bangs, 5’4, I have asthma, can be stubborn, cry easily. I’m sarcastic and like to mess around with my friends a lot. I love smiling and making sure everyone feels happy, I love hanging out with animals and people I’m comfortable with. I listen to early 2000’s music. I dress like a hippie and like making beauty marks on me. I’m an INFP and Pisces.
You’re so cute!
I think Marcus Moreno would absolutely adore you. He would joke about your music taste, but you’ve walked in on him singing to Backstreet Boys in the shower enough times to know that he’s just as big of a fan as you are. He’d tease you about crying (as long as it wasn’t something that’s truly bothering you), and wipe your tears away with an easy smile and a kiss to the forehead.
“You spend so much time and energy making everyone else smile, you deserve happiness of your own.”
He’s very aware of your stubborn nature, and has told you that he somehow managed to get lucky to be stuck with two beautiful, stubborn, curly haired women- you and Missy (who adores you and 100% would follow your fashion sense.) He worries about your asthma, and has taken to carrying a backup inhaler with him at all times, and if anyone checked his desk at the Heroics headquarters, they’d see another inhaler, right next to his favorite picture of the two of you cuddled together at a friends’s house warming party, where he first realized that he was head over heels in love with you.
