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Moveon

Sebentar lagi, Tahun saja sudah mau berganti. Masa kamu mau terus-menerus berharap pada yang tidak pasti. Sudahilah, tak usah berharap lagi. Dia hanya bayangan indah yang tak mungkin kamu miliki.

Sebentar lagi, Desember akan digantikan oleh January. Masa iya kamu mau terus-menerus menetap pada hati yang penuh duri. Sudahilah, kini waktunya berganti Tahun. Dan hatimu, segeralah beralih moveon.

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Teruntuk yang sedang terluka

Untukmu yang sedang terluka. tak perlu bersedih sedemikian rupa. dinginkan pikiranmu, tenangkan hatimu. jangan diselesaikan dengan nafsu, kau hanya perlu waktu

Untukmu yang sedang terluka. janganlah risau atau pun rapuh. kau bukan kayu yang mudah lapuk. bangkitlah, dunia ini terlalu pahit, jika putaran bumi ditemani dengan senyummu yang semakin menyempit

Berikan senyum lebar mu. meski hati sedang tertekan oleh masalalu. setidaknya kau layak untuk memiliki kekasih baru.

Untukmu yang sedang terluka. tak perlu terburu-buru untuk melupakan dia. meski saat ini membuatmu terluka sebegitu hebatnya. ingat, dia pernah bersanding bersamamu. Berbagi tawa denganmu, berbagi kisah denganmu, lalu melupakanmu

Namun, bukan berarti kau harus membencinya. Kau hanya perlu sendiri untuk menikmati luka. kau hanya perlu waktu untuk berdamai dengan masalalu.

Kau, hanya perlu, cinta yang baru.

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Lembutnya awan selalu menemani indahnya jingga, tanpa pernah berani berkata tidak.

Sedangkan hatimu, yang tak pernah berani untuk mengucapkan cinta.

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Selamat malam minggu

Selamat malam minggu bagi kamu yang sedang merayakan rindu. Nikmatilah rasa yang sedang beradu asmara

Seharusnya malam minggu ini kau terlihat ceria, bukannya meratapi masalalu yang penuh derita. Seharusnya malam minggu ini kau bahagia, bukanya hanya diam di kamar sembari mendengarkan lagu alay.

Beranjaklah dari tempat tidurmu. Ajak teman-temanmu nongkrong atau hanya sekedar nonton layar lebar. Karena hati yang sedang kosong pun layak untuk berdebar.

Jangan pula lupa makan malam, karena perut yang sedang lapar, tak akan pernah mampu menahan kenangan yang tiba-tiba hadir dalam ingatan. Pesan pula satu es teh manis, karena mungkkin jika meminum kopi terlalu pahit dengan keadaan seperti itu.

Bangun, berikan senyummu yang anggun.

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Mengingatkan

Selamat pagi salam sejahtera. Terutama untuk kamu, yang sempat ditinggal pergi kemudian hatinya terluka.

Bagaimana sudah sarapan? Seharusnya kalian mendahulukan sarapan dari pada harapan. Karena sarapan tak akan pernah sepahit harapan. Sarapan pun dapat memberi kita kekuatan untuk bisa melupakan si mantan. Jangan lupa sarapan ya ;)

Seharusnya pagi ini terlihat cerah, jika putaran bumi ditemani dengan senyummu yang merekah. Sayang nya pagi ini sedang kelabu, karena hatimu yang sedang di landa pilu.

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Untukmu yang pernah

Untukmu yang pernah aku damba sepenuh hati ijinkan aku membencimu untuk kesekian kali Untukmu yang sempat aku perjuangkan ijinkan aku untuk membuang semua kenangan

Untukmu yang sempat memberi harapan jangan pernah lagi memberi jika akhirnya meninggalkan untukmu yang sempat memberi kepalsuan jangan pernah lagi memberi senyuman yang menawan

Aku tidak sudi jika harus menetap pada kebodohan mencoba relakan, karena cinta bukan tentang paksaan meski kekecewaan selalu menyelimuti hati namun kebodohan tak di bolehkan menguasai diri

Untukmu yang pernah merasakan seperti ini cepat-cepatlah lupa, agar kau tak terus terluka untukmu yang sempat mengalami hal ini segeralah beralih kelain hati, agar lukamu cepat terobati

Kau pun tidak sudikan, jika terus saja terbodohi maka cepatlah berlalu sebelum cinta berteman dengan nafsu kau pun tidak sudilan, jika terus saja di khianati maka segeralah pindah sebelum hatimu sulit untuk singgah

Lupakan, bahwa dia pernah membahagiakanmu lupakan, bahwa dia pernah mengecewakanmu

Bercandalah, tertawalah. Kau layak bahagia meski tak mudah Tersenyumlah, lupakanlah. Kau layak untuk hidup lebih indah.

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Otomatis Romantis

I saw the mega–print–ad on the road – Sukajadi – and it got me exciting, later on I saw the trailer in www.otomatisromantis.com as well, honestly, it was getting me more excited ‘bout that. So, I was pushing my–self to see the movie on the premiere day. I was glad I did it. The movie is great actually – I said great – what can I say, I’m a dagelan fanatic. These are some of my opinions–reviews; I’m exciting about this movie because two things; firstly, this is Tukul Arwana’ first movie, he is a hilarious guy, that for sure. And secondly, Marsha Timothy that turns even more gorgeous every day. Some of the great names are playing a role in this movie. Name it; lovely Marsha Timothy, Wulan Guritno, Poppy Sovia, Cinthamy Atmanegara, Dwi Sasono, legendary Tarzan, wong katrok Tukul Arwana, and last but not least Tora Sudiro – again. Storyline – this is a light movie, just watching it, and you’ll get it – even when you watch it while picking a call, its okay, you’ll still get it. Like any others comedy – I never complain about the story. One familiar name behind the story is Monty Tiwa. I like the dialogues in this movie; I thought it was much–much better than Joko Anwar’ Quicky Express. The dialogues are flowing nicely. Tora and Dwi Sasono; Tora and Tukul; Tukul and Wulan; Marsha and everyone – really subjective. The pictures itself are great too – the depth of field method really works. About the dagelan – what can I say – there are among the best comedians in Indonesia recently. It is not something fresh about the jokes actually, but I think the originalities of the jokes that keep them funny – Srimulatan. I am saying; do you ever listen to one title of the Warung Kopi Prambors Dono–Kasino–Indro? I listened to them million times and I still laugh. See – the originalities. So I suggest you guys to catch Otomantis Romantis in the cinema, because it is worth to see actually. For your information; the audio quality for Indonesian–Movie in the cinema is way much–much better than its DVD. I give 3 stars of five to this movie. I really want to give five stars but I don’t think I will, consider to one name that appears in so many movies – tORA SUDIro!!!

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passionate pengkelana

Raise your spirit of an independent travel, because the perfect time has finally arrived.

It was the other day that I was having conversation with my friend from Malaysia. She told me; within these three months – June, July and August – she will be going to three different countries – Indonesia, Thailand and Vietnam. And I went; “Whao… you travel a lot…”. And she went; “I work hard so I deserve it then…”. Then I said; “Yeah, make sense to me…”

It was couple nites ago my friend came here, she was discussing with me about how to travel across the Java Island – in the backpackers way. Then I suggested her some of the best spots in Java to be visited, I sketched her a very simple map where are these spots are located. And I said to her, “Before you take your leave, just go the book store and find the lonely planet book for Indonesia, so you know where you are and what to do…”

It was only last nite, my friend made a call, she just came back from Bali for training and vacation at the same time. She told me a lot of things happened in Bali, from wearing a new Speedo that she bought before she took her leave to Bali to hooked up with the boy from Switzerland that she met in cocktails party.

Everybody is going to some fucking destinations these days…

For some reasons I could explain, June, July and August are the best time to travel for us I reckon, thus no wonder why many people are going for travel.

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The weather, fine weather…

Even tough the weather’ been atrocious these days, but please be grateful for the great weather the Lord has been giving us. We are now in the dry season, the season of fine weather.

Traveling is about moving, luckily the fine weather will allow us to move toward here there and everywhere conveniently – plane, bus, car, shuttle, bike, motorbike, pedicab, foot and so many on. Wherever on earth your destination is, and doesn't matter what your transportation is, HOP ON!!!

Fortunately, these days, rain won’t be an obstacle for your travel – but this is not totally true, for 3 seasons country like Thailand, the rainy season falls between June to September, but don’t worry about that, Thailand is a whole year destination.

Another great things what I like are…

In the daytime, the sky is always blue – it’s quite rare to find nowadays actually. I tell you couple things; the blue sky is always stunning in the picture and everything seems better with a blue sky as a background - I’m a photographer what can I say…

And after the sundown, fine weather means clear sky, means the stars are bright beautify the clear–dark–black sky. You don’t have to do anything about this, just look at it and be grateful for what you’re looking at...

If someone gives me the option of seeing sunrise in the top of the mountain or enjoying sunset in the beach, I rather choose both of sunrise or sunset, because it is another wonderful thing within this season. Imagine magenta–yellow–red–orange–purple sunrise or golden–yellow–orange–red sunset, and you’ll get it. Surely, it is the remarkable one.

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Travel is great… everyone knows that… everyone wants to do that… everyone says that traveling is his or her hobby.

Whether you’re bare–footing it on a budget or a five–star insider, plan your travel as you always wanted to – in the passionate spirit of an independent traveler, which is, travel with respect, sensitivity, curiosity and liberal sense of humor, because some says, it is one of life’ most satisfying pleasure, yet the best thing I think…

Fine weather means everything for traveling.

I’m arsed about it going nowhere and standing still… That’s just shite. Plan a break, courage the heat, make pace for miles, see what you want to see, taste what you like to taste, feel what you want to experience, and go get discovering your destination to the maximum until you realize that you may have get lost – hahahaha, I like this sentence…

One more thing; for us who live our life as a muslim, Ramadhan is coming nearer, perhaps by 1st of September. And within Ramadhan the holy month, I think it’s not appropriate for us to travel, except, for Umroh and very first Formula 1 nite race in Singapore... hehehe : ). 

Cheers

– Pambudi Perdana – a journey rider

PS; for a reason I can’t explain I do hate the word “traveling” actually... Little fuckers!!!