#pan oriented aroace

[vermeillll]

HAPPY PRIDE MY QUEERSSSS

[boopthatsnoot]

I just realized I might be pan oriented aroace, not just aroace

[yourfave-isqueer]

Numbuh 3 from Codename: Kids Next Door is pan-oriented aroace, a cis girl, autistic and uses she/her, three/threes and 3/3s pronouns!

(Requested by @satuputra796)

[super-ace]

I’ve been toying with the idea that I’m bi or pan oriented aroace. I’ve always known I experience aesthetic attraction - it’s how it took me so long to realise I’m asexual because I was confusing it with sexual attraction. I know it’s to multiple genders but also I don’t think gender really matters because I don’t want anything to come of this attraction, I just appreciate that people are pretty. It doesn’t really seem to be people I know in my life though, usually just celebrities. I’ve been reading the definition online and it always says ‘significant tertiary attraction’ and the word ‘significant’ is confusing to me because that is a subjective word. Any oriented aroaces relate?

[uspop209]

I uh.........I think I might be this. ⬇

[aromantichc]

Aromantic Character of the Day (21/7/24 BONUS) is.....

The Doctor (Doctor Who) !

Admin headcanons the Doctor as pan oriented aroace ! They are also autistic and genderfluid and use fluctuating pronouns depending on their presentation.

Part of this post is CANON. The doctor is CANONICALLY acespec, mspec, neurodivergent, and genderfluid with fluctuating pronouns!!!!

[wof-pride]

Blue, Pan Oriented Aroace!

Requested by anon

[ehmaree]

Second (third?) coming out

I’m always learning more about attraction and identities (attraction is complicated), and as an extent of that, myself.

I’m coming out as Pan Oriented Aroace!

An oriented aroace is defined as someone who is aroace, but feels tertiary attraction (platonic, sensual, alterous, etc) significant enough for them to feel as though it’s important enough for a label alongside being aroace. In my specific case, this attraction doesn’t factor in gender identity, similar to how a pansexual person feels sexual attraction.

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(And for those of you who saw my other coming out post: yes, I still identify as apothiromantic)