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“If a paraphilia is only considered a 'disorder' when it causes a person severe distress or hurts someone else, what happens when society’s judgment is the only thing causing that distress? If a person has an atypical interest that is completely harmless and safe, but they feel miserable because they are terrified of being judged, is the problem inside their own head, or is the problem how society treats them?”

- (question from a friend)

If said person’s distress exists solely because they fear being rejected, that would show that the interest itself is not necessarily pathological. The distress may instead reflect social stigma, internalized shame, or fear of discrimination.

Sometimes the problem is not inside the person’s head, but in the social environment that teaches them they should hate themselves for something deemed ‘evil’. The resulting distress is real, but its source may be external rather than intrinsic to the interest itself.

#para asks #this is not paraphilic social ostracism #anti contact non consensual paraphilias #anti contact paraphile #sfw pro para #pro para #paraphile positivity #mental illness #actually mentally ill

hi this is my slightly more professional account i think. i helped make danganronpa ultra:violet

talk to me about it on here not twitter pls

- i can answer questions about students tsutsumi sukai, andou haruto, takahashi lenore, matsuo keita, and hirato minori

- i can answer questions about staff ishikawa makoto, feng marigold, and tagawa miho

- i can also answer general information questions!

organization in the tags

#danganronpa ultra:violet #drultrav #drultrav asks #drultrav updates #para txt #para art #para asks #ultraviary #ultraviary asks

Hello! Sorry for the question, I tried to seek the answer myself but I couldn't find any explanation unfortunately. What is 'complex contact', exactly? I understand no contact and all that, but how does complex contact work? What does it mean? Thank you

It's basically just having varying opinions depending on the situation

I find that anti-contact lacks too much nuance. I think if you're going to call a type of relationship unethical, there's got to be an actual reason why the individual can't consent effectively, and anti-contact discussions often just end at 'they're x years old' rather than continuing to say 'and this is why they're not cut out to consent in this situation'

I also think that because the world has different legal ages of consent and different ideas of ethical age gaps, it's arbitrary to just pick an age and call it the universal age of consent and apply it to every situation. Especially when people take the American AoC and apply it to everywhere

#paraphilia #paraphile community #paraphile safe #paraphiles please interact #pro para #para asks #complex contact #contact complex

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#para asks #evil para #hehe :3 #thank you for the ask!

u probably know who this is but— BARKS AT YOUR HOLLOW KNIGHT SKETCHES ROOAOAOR 🥺👉👈 I want to see...

waaaa! okay here’s most of them! the last 3 are shh shh because i want to post them separately! :))

ta-daaa! ✨✨

#para’s art #most are discord related shenanigans!#hollow knight #hk #little ghost #hk little ghost #pale king #hk pale king #hk quirrel #the mask maker #hk mask maker #hk hornet #hk hollow #hk myla #para asks #ask answered #answered asks #anonymous #i think this is the most tags i want to do

pizza 🍕 - where does your para live?ice cream 🍦 - what skills does your para have?wine 🍷 - does your para drink alcohol? (bonus: what’s their fave drink?)fries 🍟 - is your para more of a lover or a fighter?

Thank you for the ask!! I've been bursting at the seams to talk about my new paracosm ^^

The main paras are A.H. and his wife Tumpa, and side paras are S.H. and his wife Anannya.

Pizza - Where does your para live?

- They all live in a fictional small city in Bangladesh.

Ice cream - What skills does your para have?

- Tumpa is good with children, A.H. has a knack for business. S.H. and Anannya are all rounders, the pride of their parents, the perfect poster children with too many skills to list.

Wine - Does your para drink alcohol? (Bonus: what's their favourite drink?)

- None of them do, and the one time A.H. did ended up horribly. They don't really have any favourite drinks.

Fries - Is your para more of a lover or a fighter?

- A.H. is fighter, the rest are lovers. But Anannya is a bit too fussy and can come off us as a fighter due to her initial over reactions.

#para asks

- (ask from a side-blog)

I think that the best way to help normalize help for paraphiles is separating having a paraphilia from acting on one in harmful ways.

People are much more likely to seek help when they know they won’t be automatically treated as monsters for asking for support. We can normalize therapy, research, and prevention while still being clear that protecting others and maintaining consent are non-negotiable.

Supporting people who are struggling means encouraging treatment, accountability, and healthy coping strategies—not excusing harmful behavior. Compassion for someone seeking help and condemnation of harmful actions can exist at the same time.