i absolutely hate how much people in our society tolerate a certain type of "performative leftism" in which people use progressive buzzwords and ways of framing statements to advance right-wing viewpoints.
Like when you start talking about environmental issues and climate change, people try to shut down your argument with "but poor people can't afford..."
You try talking about reforming or gutting a deeply racist and classist "school choice" system, people try to defend the system by cherry picking one odd charter or magnet school that happens to serve a mostly-black population.
Sometimes people's arguments don't even make sense. For example my area has a dire housing shortage right now, and both the price of renting and buying a home has become astronomical, an an area that was cheap to live in until about 5-10 years ago. But if you ask them why they oppose new housing developments that would add more apartments or townhouses, in higher-density development, to increase supply, they say "because prices are too high and we need more affordable housing". So they end up voting for blocking any sort of housing development, or they only allow low-density luxury housing, and either outcome is one that is exactly opposite to the effect that the "objectors" say it will have.
So much progress is held back because people don't actually listen to and think about (and pick apart) the content of what people are saying. They get tricked or fooled by the superficial way in which the response is framed.
If someone frames the objection to a progressive policy in terms of "but this would hurt marginalized people", a lot of people will give in to the objection and back down with their level of passion or enthusiasm for their original point.
We can't keep doing this because if we do this it allows people to grind progress to a halt.
We need to engage with what people are actually saying, deeply, and when people's argument is bullshit, we need to respond by becoming 10 times as strong behind our original point. We need to take 80% of that effort and dedicate it towards patient, respectful education and explanation of why the response is wrong and the other 20% towards pushing for the original thing.
Yes, there will be some times when people have a valid objection, like something REALLY WILL hurt marginalized people and it's a bad idea because of it. And this is yet another reason why it's important to delve deeply into objections.
Some objections are more valid than others. The valid objections need to be considered and sometimes our goals need to be changed or even abandoned. But when the only objections are just repackaged or reframed old right-wing bullshit like racism or classism or NIMBYism, we really need to put our foot down and stamp that shit out.