#persephaphony

[jewelofbusan]

stannide it's not that they're being inappropriate or anything like that it's just that i feel like this is my space and i shouldn't feel pressured to talk to people but they don't understand that at all?? and it's getting annoying tbh persephaphony omg yea that's exactly it!! and i'm more comfortable with people i've known for a while and i absolutely do not mind talking to them but strangers make me super uncomfortable especially when they put on that air of familiarity with me like no bro i don't know you at all please do not?????

[spohkh]

persephaphony ha respondido a tu publicación “pronouns are not indicative of gender gender is not indicative of...”

Good Post bc this is like my Struggle w figuring out my gender bc sometimes I'm like??? am I cis??? but so many ppl are like "well you're most comfortable w she/her pronouns so" like but I don't quite??? feel??? idek Know anymore

I TOTALLY feel u. gender is a journey that may not have a final stop for some people and obviously thats ok. everyone experiences it differently. i know i had to make several different stops and sometimes loop back around until i finally felt mostly comfortable with identifying as nonbinary and using they/them, but even then some days its like a wrinkled, ill-fitting shirt. i think the more you get in the habit of thinking of yourself as just yourself, yknow, like, youre not a girl or a boy or whatever, youre Puck and thats all there really needs to be, the more comfortable youll feel both with yourself and peoples' perceptions of you.

[witchern]

persephaphony replied to your post: if you haven’t yet read the golem and ...

I actually just bought this I’m really excited to read it!!!

lkdashfaljk let me know what you think when you’re done if you want !! :D

[jewelofbusan]

persephaphony yep one only has to look at the state of the trc fandom to realise that the overwhelming trend in the ya lit fandom is to woobify and make excuses for every single asshole character there is

[jewelofbusan]

persephaphony tamlin is a gift that this fandom has done nothing to deserve tbh. ohhhhh tell me what you've heard about rhysand ?? i didnt know how gross he was until i read the books bc of the way they played up the positives (literally my dash led me to believe he was the main love interest) but tell me fuel my hatred

[jewelofbusan]

persephaphony ok i feel like you should take a shot at it though??? rhysand is only a running feature towards the end of the book and the rest of it was pretty solid and you'll probably like lucien and tamlin and tbh it's worth it for those two characters still rhysand is a person that exists even though i wish he didnt lmao so i totally get if he puts you off entirely

[princeabernathy]

happy birthday!!! hope it's a good one!

well i just woke up with a jump bc sister yelled something about having my favorite food for lunch, i’m scared but if there’s food my day is going fine, thank youuu!

[kaphka]

happy birthday!! hope the day is good for you!!!

thank yoou, it’s treated me well this far so i’m hopeful (◡‿◡✿)