#personal spaces

[stone-cold-groove]

Your summer reading list: Personal Space. The Behavioral Basis of Design. Robert Sommer - 1969.

[crazycatsiren]

@elminx makes a strong point.

If you want to write "blessed be" in your posts, that's your right and your agency. It's your blog, it's your content, you write what you want, nobody will stop you or tell you that you can't.

But as soon as you take it out of your own space and start bringing it into other people's spaces, you're crossing others' boundaries.

[jcpostsobsessions]

When he asked her to stop back. I love the way she actually does it.

And again look at them. JK’s strong jaw, his eyes and Naksu’s.

[justanotherblonde]

An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works

☆ﾟ.*･｡ﾟﾟ SCI-FI WEEK, SCI-FI WEEK, SCI-FI WEEK ☆ﾟ.*･｡ﾟﾟ

@naruto-scifi-week​

Naruto Sci-Fi Week 2020  Dec 4th - ☆ﾟ.*･｡ﾟﾟ Zero Gravity Kiss / Across the Stars

Chapters: 1/2 Relationships: Deidara/Sasori (Naruto) Characters: Sasori (Naruto), Deidara (Naruto) Additional Tags: Alternate Universe - Science Fiction, Alternate Universe - Robots & Androids, Androids, Alternate Universe - Space, Outer Space, Space Flight, IN SPACE!, Spaceships, zero-gravity, space disaster, Space CPR, Near Death, Sasori 34 Deidara 18, Pining, Falling In Love, Cuddling & Snuggling, Eternal vs. Ephemeral Art, Spaces conquered but there’s still a quite a distance for these two to traverse Series: Part 2 of The Lights Will Guide You Home

Summary: Drifting through interstellar space on their way to a mission, Sasori and Deidara are ripped from private introspection by an unexpected rogue planet, spelling near-disaster for their ship. In the aftermath, will Deidara find Sasori ready to start the conquest of spaces that have been expanding between the two of them?

Every so often on their way to a mission, Sasori would bring the ship out of hyperdrive and let it “drift” through deep space. In the vast, unchanging silence of an interstellar void, it was easy to forget that the “drifting” ship was actually hurtling along at 100 million kilometers/galaxy-standard-hour. Here, trillions of kilometers stretched between them and the nearest celestial body. The view outside the cockpit was a gemstone-studded blanket of eternal night, spiraling clusters of pinprick stars etching out the edges of their galaxy.

For all its beauty, the stillness of it always chafed at Deidara.

[crazycatsiren]

Hot take: not everybody likes children, and that's ok.

There are people who don't want to have children simply because they don't like children and never want children around. And that's valid.

"Kids are not my thing" doesn't make someone a kid hater. They are not a terrible person just because they aren't lovey dovey toward every kid who crosses their path.

Let people who aren't hurting anyone have their lives and personal spaces.

[crazycatsiren]

Please stop normalizing "blessing" or "praying for" people when they have not asked to be blessed or prayed for. Even as a polite gesture. Even as a means to be nice. Just, stop.

It's creepy. It's invasive. And there are people, like me, who just don't want any of it. Not from people we don't know. Not from people on the internet we've never met. Not from random strangers, period. Doesn't matter how you feel about blessing or praying for people. Some of us have boundaries and our personal spaces need to be respected.

[accursedpenner]

A big part of my 2018 resolution was to be more organized and tidy up my personal spaces since I’ve been living like a big clutter bug since 2010 and quite frankly I want a nice space I can decompress in. 

See that floating drawer with my mic on it? That was a mess and has been since I’ve had it installed when I first moved into this house. There was shit in there that was a huge fire hazard (that’s where one of my surge protectors are) that makes me wonder how much stuff can I fit into a small space! Like . . . i guess never underestimate the determination of a hoarder! There were CDs, jewelry, and hospital documents in there! Chargers, cables, a mirror. . . what the heck, me!? 

plus the top part was such a terrible cluttered space it made me stressed to look at it! 

So stressed, in fact, mom n I went to Ikea to buy a new drawer or holding space. The one that’s been christened with the Ninetales sticker (that I’ve had, unstuck to anything, since 2000) is what I bought and installed today~ leaving the most cluttered area in my room nice n tidy~ 

Cleaning up and adding cute and bright decor to my room and bathroom has made a HUGE difference already~! I’m a lot less stressed and it’s been helping with my depression too. On top of that, having various things on a to do list has also been helping me manage my executive dysfunction. 

I’m in my mid-20′s and i SHOULD be focusing on growth and settling into a more stable lifestyle but to be able to do that I wanted to give myself space to grow~  Don’t mistake all this as my vouching for Minimalism, because it’s not; that’s an aesthetic and life style choices many people can’t afford. It’s just better to tidy things up and have storage space where you can easily access your things~ 

I’m pretty pleased with the progress I’ve made already~ And I’m really happy I settled on a resolution I can legitimately work on!  

If you’ve read all of this and you’re still working on your resolution or maybe have put it on pause for things that require your immediate attention, I’m rooting for you~! Don’t feel like you need to rush and take it a little at a time so you don’t overwhelm yourself!