#personalroutine

[bbbllll2014]

When You No Longer Care What’s Trending

You don’t decide to stop caring about trends. It just happens when they stop having anything to do with your life.

At first, trends feel useful. They tell you what’s current, what’s approved, what’s worth paying attention to. Following them can feel like staying connected. But over time, that connection starts to feel thin. The updates come faster. The cycle shortens. And your interest doesn’t keep up.

When you no longer care what’s trending, it’s not because you’ve checked out. It’s because you’ve checked in—with your own habits, your routine, your actual needs. You start noticing how little impact trends have on the parts of life that matter most.

The days that shape you aren’t curated. They repeat. They’re practical. They don’t change just because something new appeared online. And suddenly, chasing what’s “in” feels out of sync with how your life actually moves.

I noticed this shift in the things I kept wearing. The pieces that lasted weren’t current or directional. They were adaptable. Familiar. Easy to live in. Over time, I naturally leaned toward steady, everyday clothing grounded in music and long-term routine—not because it avoided trends, but because it didn’t depend on them.

There’s a quiet freedom in that detachment. You stop measuring your choices against a moving target. You buy less. You keep more. Getting dressed becomes easier because it’s no longer about keeping up—it’s about staying aligned.

When you no longer care what’s trending, style stops feeling like a conversation you have to participate in. It becomes something private. Functional. Yours.

Trends will keep changing. That’s their job.

But once you step out of that cycle, you realize you don’t need to react to every shift to stay relevant to your own life. Sometimes, the most current thing you can do is stay where you are—and wear what already works.

[byby2025]

What Stays in Your Closet Longer Than Most Phases

Most phases announce themselves loudly. You can usually tell when you’re in one—your interests shift, your habits change, your style starts reaching for something different. And just as quietly as they arrive, those phases pass.

What’s interesting is what doesn’t.

I’ve noticed that the clothes that stay in my closet the longest are rarely the ones I was excited about at first. They weren’t bought to mark a moment or match a mood. They didn’t belong to a version of me that was trying something on temporarily.

They were practical. Comfortable. Easy to return to.

Over time, phases leave behind clues. You stop wearing things that feel tied to a specific period—college years, a certain job, a certain mindset. What remains are the pieces that adapt. Clothes that work whether life is busy or slow, settled or uncertain.

These are the items you don’t question. You don’t wonder if they still “feel like you.” They quietly adjust as you do. They fit into new routines without asking to be reinterpreted.

I’ve realized that what stays is usually aligned with how you actually live, not how you imagined you might. That’s why I keep coming back to simple, long-wearing pieces shaped by music and everyday routines. They don’t lock you into a phase—they move with you as phases come and go.

There’s comfort in opening your closet and recognizing what’s still there. It’s a reminder that not everything needs to change at the same pace you do. Some things are meant to stay steady while the rest shifts around them.

In the end, what lasts isn’t what defined a chapter. It’s what survived multiple ones.

[praxically]

My daily action plan: - Meditate - Give thanks - Positive affirmations - Exercise of some kind - Be compassionate to self

the space between my ears

[lammxricky]

day 9

I'm losing it.

[lammxricky]

Day 7,8

3 x 45 lbs reps 3 x 55 lbs reps 3 x 65 lbs reps 1 mile bike day 7 : 6 mile bike