I think I get platonic limerence and it’s annoying. Why so much feelings, brain? Why so much feelings without feelings?

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I think I get platonic limerence and it’s annoying. Why so much feelings, brain? Why so much feelings without feelings?
i hate platonic obsession and i can’t even talk to anyone about it without them telling me i have a crush on them. nooo i don’t want to date you i just want to be near you and if you ever mention anyone else ill kms because now i feel like you don’t like me
It's really, REALLY hard to try and explain platonic limerence to anyone who hasn't experienced it because they assume it's a crush. "Girl, that's just a crush, you have to get over them." No. I have no interest in a relationship with them. I am well, WELL aware that such a thing would not even work. I've just tied my entire sense of self-worth to them and need to untangle that while also attempting to address the underlying issues that CAUSED it.