➤ sophieberg updated her story - July 14th, 2019.
“I’m currently handling two things wrong right now, but the one I’m going to talk about is my ex-relationship. I don’t recommend hooking back up with an ex, that’s not a good idea take it from me. It just blurs all the lines that don’t have to be blurred, you know? Or you could leave them in the morning without a phone call or goodbye, and that’s pretty douchey too. Although, I wouldn’t mind doing it again because, hey, I’m human, and nobody should shame you for connecting with someone. ESPECIALLY, someone you already had a relationship with. I don’t think anyone has the right to judge you or shame you for that. Unless, you are cheating because that’s a whole different story.”
“I also don’t think anyone should be allowed to say that you’re 'bragging' just because you have a healthy sex life, just saying. Now, here’s where it gets a little complicated because I personally feel that I’m allowed to hook up with any of my exes, even if they are my friend’s ex too. If we are both consenting SINGLE adults, what’s the issue? All my friends have my permission to hook up with my exes because that’s their business, and I don’t have anything to do with that. Now, if I say ‘hey I would appreciate if you don’t flirt or hook up with them because I’m still head over heels in love,’ and I do it anyways then I’m a crappy friend. But, if that was never stated or even implied how am I supposed to know?”
“What I’m trying to say is don’t shame people for their choices, especially if the person who is judging you doesn't have the cleanest track record either. Who knows I could be madly in love with my ex or I still want to hook up with him, that’s my decision to make, and I wish people would be more supportive of my choices even if they believe they are wrong.”
