#poly ally

[dusk-the-fallen]

”But poly relationships statistically don’t last very long-“

When was that your business 🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨

[imaginarylungfish]

while i am pretty sure i'm monogamous by nature, i'm glad i experimented with different relationship styles. being part of the poly community helped me unlearn a bunch of useless social norms. it taught me so much about how to be a better friend and communicator as well as how to heal from codependency. that's invaluable.

[lifeworkspsych]

Even if you do not understand why your loved one is in a polyamorous relationship, please consider inviting the people they see as family members to the family holiday event. It can be tremendously painful and difficult for poly family members to be forced to choose between spending the holidays with their chosen family members and their families of origin. Inviting everyone who is family – legal, biological, or chosen – to the party can mean more love for the whole clan.

Essential tips for navigating the holidays when you or someone you love is poly.