Hi PS!! Good morning! It has been a really long time since I sent in a ask. Hope you find this question interesting- is there any perception or interpretation you had about the story/ characters of the show during your first few watches that changed during your later re-watches? Happy weekend! Thanks in advance!
I hope you’ve been well, I’ve missed you!!
is there any perception or interpretation you had about the story/ characters of the show during your first few watches that changed during your later re-watches?
Ahh this is an awesome question, thank you for asking it! As you know, it’s very hard for me to remember my first watch, but I’ll try ...
I couldn’t see the point of Mami. I distinctly remember thinking she didn’t add much value to the show -- Bua-ji served a similar function from a comedic standpoint so it felt like overkill to have two ~comedic aunt~ characters. I remember when my views changed too: when I finally stopped fast-forwarding scenes I didn’t like and managed to catch Arnav explaining that she sold her jewellery so he could start a business. The honest-to-goodness revelation that she loved Arnav that much -- more like a son than a nephew -- changed my views on her forever. I could suddenly see why she was mean to Khushi and why she was always so upset about Payal and Khushi being accepted into Shantivan. Once I gave her a chance, I could see that she only wanted a rich gril for Aakash because she didn’t want her bahu to be treated like Nani treated her. The rest is history!
As the years have gone on, I’ve become less tolerant of Khushi’s actions, less accepting of the idea that her behaviour should be overlooked because of her pure intentions. She’s still my absolute favourite character in the serial but I’ve noticed a definite departure from when I began the blog, when I was eager to explain all her actions away because she didn’t really mean to do harm. Some of this has been driven by my real-life circumstances. As I’ve grown up, I’ve come to see what my own intentions aren’t the only thing that matter -- I have to acknowledge my role in hurting people even when it wasn’t intentional.
I guess the hut scene qualifies as well -- I didn’t hate it initially, I thought it was pretty romantic that they finally wanted to get it on.
For me, the best part about watching IPKKND again and again and again is that each time I find new things. As recently as this year, I was rewatching a few episodes and updating the recaps. It’s such a gorgeously nuanced, layered show :)
I hope your weekend was excellent!! Mine was alright, spent it applying for jobs. Take care :) ❤️