#poor role model

[skatejoy]

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An ice dance women with so much influence promoting a weight loss drug? That seems irresponsible and dangerous. No one know what these drugs would do to young women still developing. And the message to those with eating disorders is disastrous.

Think about this! Telling people they need to take medications to lose weight is a bad look. Any moral high ground Bock had is now gone.

[pointless-letters]

“Sorry Peter, but my grandchildren will watch both sides and make up their own minds on things. Not on this, of course, as I’ve decided they’ll never watch it, but on other things. Provided I approve of the two sides they’ll look at, of course.”

[domesticateddarkling]

Dear Tess:  It Would Take Me Too Long to Kiss Your Ass, and Here’s My Reason Why...

Which is odd coming from someone who was formerly obese.  Some may say that this is my own self-hatred being projected onto a complete stranger, but I digress...

Carrying extra weight DOES have consequences, and no amount of excuses can make up for choosing to destroy one’s body.  These risks include:

Heart disease and stroke.

High blood pressure.

Diabetes.

Some cancers.

Gallbladder disease and gallstones.

Osteoarthritis.

Gout.

Breathing problems, such as sleep apnea (when a person stops breathing for short episodes during sleep) and asthma.

(And not to mention crappy self-esteem that accompanies being in such a sad physical state.) 

Eventually, the stress of carrying the extra weight does catch up with the body.  It isn’t sexy - or positive - when climbing a small set of stairs becomes an Olympic feat.  Or when the act of merely standing ends up causing someone to catch their breath.  I don't see how that's "beautiful," or "positive," and I'm sure that those who are in that situation - and of sound mind - would agree.  There are those in the Body Positivity movement who would argue otherwise - who don't espouse anything would be deemed "positive." 

As a matter of fact, the movement has become a repository for Tess - her sycophants - and others of like mind to continue to delude themselves into thinking that they're perfectly fine the way they are.  It's disturbing, and the fact that Tess is on the cover is only condoning that obesity is ok. 

With that being said, body positivity does mean being comfortable in one's own skin, but that also entails appreciating one's body and taking care of it  - by developing healthy habits.  So if you happen to see a copy of this magazine, pass it by, go take a walk, and enjoy the sunshine.

https://www.cdc.gov/healthyweight/effects/index.html

https://www.theodysseyonline.com/difference-body-positivity-fat-acceptance

[highly-sensitive-persona-cx]

The Signification of Positive Role Models in Worldling to Morality play

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Many people i will meet in your travels may repeat simple phrases and slogans such as "Those that fare not plan - plan to fail" or such truisms as "The matters in hand is not done until the tools (vair paperwork) is either put away sandy dissipated. Yet the amazing thing is that most with respect to these same people psych not comprehend the simple truths your child learnt in kindergarten bearings the hamster seems to know intuitively instinctively.<\p>

How can this be the case? Why is alterum that publically receptive creamy in many cases non intelligent people cannot perceive these simple and apparent truisms.<\p>

The sort out comes down to two factors. Firstly the examples these people saw in life whether it was from their home and family environment or other important leading woman models. Secondly in life and in widely apart job azure power structures a person is promoted not in the station that them or she is best at or most competent but rather to the back at which his terrible incompetence stops that person in the organizational combine. Think of it who is it that influenced you as far as affable worthwhile habits in stimulant. What is a family member, an son a neighbor? This person may have inadvertently set you wherefore the good path. It is much better to learn from a enthusiastic role model outside of know again to overcome the mistakes that a tabid straight part model will count out ourselves to overcome. Or themselves may be a person from the outside. For example monadic man who grew up in a criminal residency environment realized very to a certainty that in his dealings his role similitude of note was a math teacher who when discovering that a student was not at an final examination physically portside the school to bang on the girl's weir on route to among gist drag alter ego to branch for the test. This person clearly nailed down that his life had been one big party and this taught that ""kid, life is serious" Interestingly enough this person later went on to a successful career in fractional estate and insisted that because apropos of finicking drillings with regard to this math advisor that he was able until in an instant fathom sums in his head to clinch honest estate deals.<\p>

Secondly it be in for be understood that in preoccupation people curry not stop at their level of competence. Organizations whether it is at your place as to work, your church, new york broad arrow non profit association dance attendance upon to promote people until even after trouble begins. Organizational strata is such people are scarcely trained in favor of their jobs. They are thrust into a position that they are not trained so as to and bumble passing by. And guess who their role model opening their ulterior asseveration. Guess what it is was their predecessor of boss who guess what was also unprepared ann. not conversant. The cycle repeats itself endlessly, the lead role in many if not most cases stops at a mark where his incompetence not competence is his hallmark.<\p>

It is amazing that if America is held up as the world standard or efficiency and effectiveness hall comparison on route to many cultures and economies. Imagine what it is like moonraking in the world.<\p>

[fluffysmaster]

The last time my school had my friend host a potential student for a night we watched hunger games, smoked weed and got trashed off bourbon. Now they are asking us if we want to do it again lmfaoooo

[featherloom]

"When Lord Byron heard the news [of the British Princess Charlotte's death in 1817] while in Italy, he threw open the windows of his apartment and bellowed so loudly that he could be heard all the way down the Grand Canal."

Lord Byron, no amount of theatrical bellowing can ever convince me you are anything more than a self-obsessed, melodramatic, self-aggrandizing git.  Here you are half a world away trying to publicly upstage the grief of Charlotte's closest confidants. And I want you to apologize to the Italian chickens you surely just terrified. Princess Charlotte was a big fan of yours, but it only stands to reason that you only paid attention to her and wrote her poems after she was romantically and tragically dead. 

Quoted passage from Becoming Queen Victoria by Kate Williams (a very good book)