Since I skated by some Tumblr drama in the last few days, and I’m seeing some jokes posted about similar things, I figured I’d throw my two cents in on this topic.
If you post personal information on a public forum, people will interact with it. If you don’t want every idiot in the world to see what you’re posting, find a way to make your post as private as possible. If you publicly post something, you are signaling to every single person who sees your post you are fine with them knowing this info about you and using it however they deem fit. Imagine running through a crowded mall, yelling whatever you’re posting about. You cannot, and I repeat, cannot get butthurt because someone in the crowd tells you to shut up or repeats what you said immediately unaltered or records you or repeats the story later. You are freely spreading your opinions and experiences with every person in the world at that point, and they are free to interact with that information however they want.
If you want to share it with specific people, that’s what private posting and private chats and things are for. You cannot rely on every person to understand that something is private even though it’s on a 200-foot billboard beside a busy highway. That’s not how publicly provided information works. If you want your information and experiences to be private, you have to keep them private, which means keeping them off the internet and especially out of public forums. And your blog on tumbler, if it isn’t completely locked down and super private, is a public forum. The entire internet is a public forum unless expressly stated otherwise. And if you feel personally attacked by the above statements, save it for your mother. This post is a PSA for all users. If you wouldn’t shout it at the top of your lungs in a busy place, don’t post it online