#posts from the lady

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Take a brief hiatus very shortly (within the next day). So before I do! Mutuals (or friends I chat with on the reg): drop an emoji in my inbox and I will respond with one sincere compliment. :)

And to send me off on a nice note? Anyone: tell me one thing you’re happy about, excited for, grateful for, or super interested in right now. It can be really small! 🌸🌖🌈✨⛈ Just something that sparks joy for you!

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Hello, friends!

I know we’re all having a rough go of it right now, so how about this: swing by my ask box and tell me one thing that’s helping you get through. Is it something you’re looking forward to? A small way you’re treating yourself? A good friend who’s had your back? It can be the littlest thing!

And if you’re just having a hard time thinking of anything good right now, I’ll think of something cheerful to share. Take care of yourselves (and each other), everybody!

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Cocoa asks—hot and sweet. ☕️

Mocha: Describe an ideal first date.

Whipped cream: Describe an ideal 100th date.

Cinnamon: What’s one thing guaranteed to get you In the Mood™?

Peppermint: When it comes to dating, do you like to be the asker or the asked? 

Chocolate: Name a spot you love to be kissed, aside from your lips. (Bonus points if you say why!)

Marshmallows: What is one non-sexual thing you love/would love to do with a romantic partner?

Sprinkles: What’s your go-to Look when you’re going on a date or out for a night on the town?

Steam: Describe one of your fantasies, sexy or otherwise.

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So, my lovelies~

I don’t know how it happened—I never expected it to get this high, honestly!—but there are now roughly 230 of you. 

So I thought when I hit 250, I’d do some kind of little celebration? And I wanted your thoughts. My lady’s AMA looked like a good time, so I was considering one of those—would you guys

1) enjoy that, and 

2) participate?

Is there something you would like better, be it more original content, specific kinds of posts, or something else entirely? Would you pretty please chime in via reblogs or comments and let me know?

And, finally, thank you all for being here and for interacting with my blog in whatever way you choose. I’ve met so many nice people since starting this little side project! Made more actual friends than I ever expected, and learned a lot about myself, my interests, and ways I like to express myself. 

You’re all wonderful! ❤️

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*clears throat*

SOME PEOPLE ARE BI, ACTUALLY

This has been a small reminder/PSA.

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A picture’s worth.

Asks you can only answer with a photo or illustration. 

What’s your mood right now?

What kind of animal best matches your personality?

What kind of animal would you like to be?

Who performs the song you’ve currently got on repeat?

What’s one item on your Amazon wishlist?

What book did you read as a child that you still love as an adult?

Who’s your celebrity crush?

What book, movie, or show do you go to when you get sad?

You could snap your fingers and any food you like would appear in front of you right now, ready to eat—what would it be?

What is one of your hobbies?

What country would you like to visit, if money/transportation/etc. was not an issue?

What’s your go-to movie theater snack?

What would your ideal home look like?

Puffy comforter, fuzzy blanket, or silk sheets?

What is one of your favorite solo activities?

What is one of your favorite social activities?

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I’m going to pull this card again (because you guys are always so sweet to me when I do): alas, I am plagued again by The Cramps; would you guys leave me some stuff that’s cute/funny/flirty/interesting?

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Guys, I am so cold; your lady is not meant for winter chills. I need a hot drink and a hot snuggle buddy, STAT.