I had a little moment on twitter about how the overwhelming majority of transfem!Adrien content over there predicates Adrien's identity on her worth as Marinette's wife/girlfriend or Émilie's daughter (and good god, am I tired of people taking the canonically identity-struggling character, putting her through the literal "discover your identity" process, and then not actually letting said character be her own person), and while this a little off to the side I want to talk about it anyway.
Miraculous subverts misogynistic fairytale archetypes without deconstructing them. We all know this. If the archetypes are to be deconstructed and the misogyny of them and our world at large is to be unpacked, it must be something we do ourselves as fans.
I like taking Adrien's "damsel in distress" depiction and making it less about Marinette's duty to save him and more about Adrien's hopelessness. I think part of deconstructing the trope is to acknowledge that being a damsel in distress sucks regardless of who you are, and that while in TWEoS I've said that Adrien cannot experience misogyny himself (since Adrien is not a trans woman in that fic either, I stand by it), there are larger societal forces at play with misogynistic influences that relate to the way he is treated. Him being uncomfortable with his role is much more important than any tension being dismissed for the sake of easy romance, and if I ever decide I want to tackle the way Marinette could also feel disservice by her role in canon I imagine it would go the same way: In either case, playing the tropes straight is bad. I do not think it is good writing nor good feminism.
I shouldn't act like I have all the answers nor should I act like this is the extent of my thoughts (hell, I'm sure I'll add more eventually as they come to me), but I think as far as tackling the show's mishaps go, exploring Adrien as a damsel in distress as a way of looking into Adrien's mind and even exploring Adrien's thoughts about his/her/their inability to escape their (previously, as of s6) abusive home life... I'm inclined to think that's the right direction.






