Still grieving...
For the child I aborted in February
But now I have another due in April.
When someone is pregnant, remember to support them. Abortion fucks with your mind. It’s not worth $600 and all the trauma later.
I’ve learned my lesson; this one is meant to be told. I, as the mother, do have the final say in keeping the child. I wasn’t in the right mindset and allowed peer pressure to reign on my thoughts- this is how I ended up with an unborn child. Now that I’m growing a second one, going 23 weeks in Wednesday, I’ve never felt so protective of something until now.
I’m not looking for pity; in fact if you were mad reading this I don’t blame you. I’m telling this story to let people, especially women, know that YOU have to be 100% with this decision to abort. If you feel pressured to abort due to financial reasons, there are people and resources willing to help you, who are excited for you (hell, sometimes more excited than you are about having a baby)! I understand if you do decide to abort because I don’t know your story. However for a 20 year old with a stable income and an abundance of resources, I had no excuse. I had cowardice and clouded judgment.
If you aborted and thought it was a wrong decision, contact me if you’re still grieving or at a loss. I’m here to listen. You are not alone. There’s a second chance- it’s not going to be the same, it’s not bringing anyone back from the dead, but it’s a chance for you to give love again.
My board is a sanctuary for those who are lost, confused, or too hurt to move on. I’m here. I’m listening.


















