I used to think i might be a psy vampire but i don't think it anymore. But i feel that if i really wanted to i could feed off of people's energy, i wanna make sure of that but i don't wanna hurt anyone. Any suggestions?
Not wanting to hurt anyone is a great first step. Most psi vampires or other energy-feeding beings usually only hurt people under two different circumstances. 1; they are intentionally trying to cause injury, or 2; they don't know what they're doing.
Not knowing what you're doing can be attributed to not knowing you feed on energy from others or losing control of your ability to drain energy. Psychic ability is a lot like muscles; if you stop using them, they become less strong. Exercise your ability to feel and feed on energy once in awhile to focus on not doing it, or you may find yourself accidentally doing it when tired or upset.
I found a thread on Sanguinarius.org (a support website for vampires) about this topic. It's right HERE. I hope it helps!