Begging anyone in fandom spaces (especially people who already have anxiety) who find themselves obsessing over ages of characters and the morality of ships to an intense degree to please look into purity/morality OCD and the thought policing involved in OCD because if you aren't careful it will get worse.
Engaging in fandom in that kind of way and critiquing every passing thought or feeling you or others may have if you have anxiety or OCD is incredibly harmful and I cannot emphasize this enough










