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We retain many memories of when we get hurt, but retain none of when we hurt others. The supply and demand of pain don’t align.

Age of Youth 2

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Just realized that my mood can be one of renewable resources. i mean, it is unpredictable enough to generate “true random number”, If only i have such mood generator. 

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The invention was not reach effortlessly but reached by consistent and hard attempt

kak ocha’s essay

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Even you don't think it that way, people somehow will not, they just mutually think something that you can't imagine before. It's not because you are naive and people have negative-thought, it is because you don't understand the circumstance you're in..  Might as well you're just too simple-minded balqis-sshi... (i wouldn’t call it’s the same meaning as naive tho..)

In the end, they just believe what their thought, that’s why you don’t need to clarify it thoroughly. What for? as if it is important for them. HA.

Me in another dumbfounded episode...

December 12th, 2016

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Everyone has their own circumstances to deal with, and until you know the circumstances they're in you can't tell people how to live their lives. Something that others can't understand about you, but you can't help. That's why you can't judge people willy-nilly...

Age of Youth Episode 8 

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BEAUTIFUL STORY

A long time ago in China , a girl named Li-Li got married & went to live with her husband and mother-in-law. In a very short time, Li-Li found that she couldn't get along with her mother-in-law at all.Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was angered by many of her mother-in-laws habits. In addition, she criticized L.i-Li constantly.

Days passed, and weeks passed. Li-Li and her mother-in-law never stopped arguing and fighting.But what made the situation even worse was that, according to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li had to bow to her mother-in-law and obey her every wish.

All the anger and unhappiness in the house was causing Li-Li’s poor husband into great distress.

Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-law’s bad temper and dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it! Li-Li went to see her father’s good friend, Mr. Huang, who sold herbs.She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some poison so that she could solve the problem once and for all.

Mr. Huang thought for awhile, and finally said, “Li-Li, I will help you solve your problem, but you must listen to me and obey what I tell you.”

Li-Li said, “Yes, Mr. Huang, I will do whatever you tell me to do.”Mr. Huang went into the back room, and returned in a few minutes with a package of herbs.

He told Li-Li, “You can’t use a quick-acting poison to get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would cause people to become suspicious Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will slowly build up poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal and put a little of these herbs in her serving.

Now, in order to make sure that nobody suspect you, when she dies, you must be very careful to act very friendly towards her. “Don’t argue with her, obey her every wish, and treat her like a queen.” Li-Li was so happy.She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried home to start her plot of murdering her mother-in-law.

Weeks went by, and months went by, and every other day, Li-Li served the specially treated food to her mother-in-law. She remembered what Mr. Huang had said about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled her temper, obeyed her mother-in-law, and treated her like her own mother.

After six months had passed, the whole household had changed. Li-Li had practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she almost never got mad or upset. She hadn’t had an argument with her mother-in-law in six months because she now seemed much kinder and easier to get along with.

The mother-in-law’ s attitude toward Li-Li changed, and she began to love Li-Li like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relatives that Li-Li was the best daughter-in- law one could ever find. Li-Li and her mother-in-law were now treating each other like a real mother and daughter.

Li-Li’ s husband was very happy to see what was happening. One day, Li-Li came to see Mr. Huang and asked for his help again She said, “Dear Mr. Huang, please help me to keep the poison from killing my mother-in-law. She’s changed into such a nice woman, and I love her like my own mother.

I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave her.”Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. “Li-Li, there’s nothing to worry about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave you were vitamins to improve her health. The only poison was in your mind and your attitude toward her, but that has been all washed away by the love which you gave to her.”

HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly how they will treat you? : “The person who loves others will also be loved in return.”

Abu Hamzah Anas bin Malik (r.a), reported that the Prophet,(sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said:

"None of you truly believes (in Allah and in His religion) until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself" [Al-Bukhari & Muslim]

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I used to live like this back then.. and i missed to live this way again.. I remember one of the best quote i got from watching japanese dorama: They are things in the world that cannot be undone, however there are not many things that cannot be redone. -I’m home-

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Tentang Hari Akhir dan kenapa kita harus mengimaninya

mungkin dialog ini bisa merepresentasikan dialog antara atheis dan orang beriman.

Bayi 1: Apakah kau percaya akan kehidupan setelah kelahiran?

Bayi 2: Tentu saja. Kehidupan setelah kelahiran itu sangat jelas. Kita di sini sedang mempersiapkan diri menjadi lebih kuat dan bersiap-siap untuk apapun menanti kita berikutnya.

Bayi 1: Ini tidak masuk akal. Tidak ada kehidupan setelah lahir! Apa yang akan hidup di luar rahim?

Bayi 2: Wah, ada banyak cerita tentang hal itu. Aku pernah mendengar ada cahaya di sana, perasaan intens dan mendalam, kesenangan dengan emosi yang mendalam, ribuan hal lainnya. Sebagai contoh, aku pernah mendengar bahwa kita akan makan dengan mulut kita.

Bayi 1: Itu konyol. Kita memiliki tali pusar dan itu caranya kita makan. Semua orang tahu bahwa kita tidak menggunakan mulut kita untuk makan! Semua yang kaudengar adalah cerita yang datang dari orang-orang naif. Hidup berakhir saat lahir. Titik. Itulah cara itu dan kita harus menerimanya.

Bayi 2: Baiklah, tapi izinkan aku untuk berpikir secara berbeda. Aku tidak tahu kehidupan setelah kelahiran tampak seperti apa, dan aku juga tidak bisa membuktikan apa-apa kepadamu. Tapi aku ingin percaya, bahwa di dunia berikutnya, kita bisa melihat ibu kita dan bahwa ia akan mengurus kita.

Bayi 1: ‘Ibu’? Berarti kau percaya pada ‘Ibu’? Oh! Jadi di mana dia?

Bayi 2: Di mana-mana, kau tidak melihatnya? Dia di mana-mana, di sekitar kita. Kita adalah bagian dari dirinya dan berkatnya lah kita hidup sekarang. Tanpa dia, kita tidak akan berada di sini.

Bayi 1: Ini konyol! Aku belum pernah melihat seorang ibu sehingga jelas dia itu tidak ada!

Bayi 2: Aku tidak setuju, itulah caramu melihat hal-hal di sekitar kita. Ketika kondisi tenang, kita bisa mendengar dia bernyanyi, ketika dia tilawah Quran, ketika dia berbicara dengan kita dengan hatinya. Kita bisa merasakan dia memeluk dunia kita. Aku yakin bahwa hidup kita baru akan dimulai setelah kita lahir.