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i can’t go out i’m busy having a queer identity crisis (again)

no but seriously i thought i was bi because i feel the same for everybody but now i’m think i may be aro/ace or maybe just ace or maybe i am bi

i’m just really confused right now and the only thing i seem to know is that i’m not straight, so yeah

(and the fact that i have a very anti-lgbtq family does not help my case)

#queer #queer crisis #identity crisis #bi panic #aromanitc #asexual #aro/ace #i’m just so confused #lgbtq

do you ever feel like having imposter syndrome about your sexuality

#help #why is being gay so hard #queer crisis

Me (a woman) : maybe im straight and just faking it

Also me: has a literal crush on another woman

#gaymess #pride #queer #im still figuring it out #its going to be okay #existential crisis #queer crisis #self doubt #mental health #this sounds like the tags for a #hurt/comfort #fanfic #on #ao3 #i love fanfiction tho #so its okay #you are valid #sexuality is fluid #labels are as important as you make them

I have never done anything wrong (in the eyes of the law) yet the most criminal act I've ever comitted is feeling this huge wave of genuine attraction towards a man but the man in question is hudson williams so can anyone blame me???? I usually look at men and I'm like...ugh. maybe a couple ones I'm like...huh, pretty (Harry Styles, Joe Keery, hello???). But even then it's purely me being able to come to the conclusion that they are handsome. But freaking hudson williams is so fucking pretty and hot and gorgeous and fit and his stupid tattoos....that stupid snake tattoo, I swear to god...it makes me so mad that he is so appealing to me like what a fatal flaw on my side. Add onto his looks that he has this confidence and that he's cheeky and fun and doesn't give a damn. And he's emotionally mature??? And educated and self-aware and sweet. I'm mad but also i adore him and am so glad he's a star, you're doing amazing sweetie

#i think he is sending a lot of queer women spiralling #he is just so gorgeous isn't he #hudson williams #queer crisis

DO YOU EVER JUST ACT GAY then feel ashamed for acting gay but then realize that you ARE gay and end up having a sexuality crisis

#i feel like an imposter #enby #sad gay tears #queer #queer crisis

my gendercrisis is a lot harder and longlasting than I anticipated it to be, especially in comparison to my sexualitycrisis.

I've pretty much always known (more or less conciously) that my sexuality is just...nope. and I "just" had to find the right word and community to start my selfacceptance.

For my gender, it's the other way around. I know so many words, but I simply CANNOT describe my experience. I don't understand it. So after litteral years of this, I kinda came to a place of comfort with not knowing my gender and by that being genderqueer&nonbinary, but the sheer amound ✨CONFUSION ✨ and anxiety I get around it on a regular basis just keeps coming and surprises me again.

So if anyone resding this is in a similar crisis: I see you. I feel you. It doesn't matter if it's confusing you; it makes you no less valid in your experience.

Everyone, feel free to come here for ranting about it, because I get it. It's pretty much the only thing I do around here, too, so...

#gender crisis #genderqueer #lgbtq #queer crisis #nonbinary people are valid #genderqueer peolpe are valid!#confusion is so valid #and relatable #gender confusion

ok yelp

I met someone at work today and.. tis a story.

So, the first time we talked was when I was "delivering" tape for the security people and they helped me to find the person that requested it. The firt thing they did was compliment my bracelet (rainbow bracelet from 2018 pride) . so yes, they are queer.

We got to talk more and more throughout the day and at some point it just came up that they are gay and we kinda talked about all of that a bit. we are both living cliches. (in case you didnt notice, they are cool).

At some point tho, I did something extremely stupid. They told me how useless they are in relationships because, even thou they are gender x (not nb, I'm just trying to not out them here) but still they don't get how to "satisfy" people of that same gender.

My stupid, ace brain automatically went "satisfy is usually used in sexual context, so maybe you tell them you are ace, so they wont assume you're trying to "Get with them" right now" So I said "I'm asexual, I haven even less of a clue than you do, probably".

Turns out, they didn't mean it as "sexual satisfy them" but mostly "understand what they want in general.

And now they think, the first thing my mind went to when they talk about relationships is SEX.

Stupid ace brain!!!!

Now I can't forget this and feel weird every time we talk. like I shold clarify why ny brain even went that way in the first place... but without the topic coming up naturally in conversation, it's just gonna make it more akward and aaaargh