#queermisia cw

[verzaenian]

Every time someone says "mspec means male spectrum" I get closer and closer to straight up murdering people

[eldorr-archive]

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got the f slur yelled up at my window the other night by what I'm assuming to be some random middle/high schooler

like yes congrats you have eyes i am indeed that congrats little one do you want a reward /j

[unleashed-bat]

why is it so much more difficult for me to reclaim words that should be neutral but are used as insults in my native language? i don't struggle so much with that in english. maybe it's because i still hear them being used as insults in my native language. people here use "disabled" as an insult all the time. "gay" is less common but still quite frequent. english is mostly a language of internet spaces for me. internet spaces that i can curate, that i have control over. here i can block people using my identities as slurs. i wish i could do the same for all those people at school.

[watercolormogai]

THIS IS NOT A CALLOUT POST . V am not posting this person's user and am simply saying "hey ! Don't fucking do this !"

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Hey guys can weird fucking people shut up forever actually . Why would you ever make hating people who have friends an identity ??? Please like . Fucking don't ? Don't hate people for literally just living their lives and doing absolutely nothing wrong .

Plus also this label is a very , VERY slippery slope into shit like "hatelesbian" or some shit like that , because it is literally just proudly hating people being in relationships . So like just fucking don't !

You can not want to have friends , you can never make friends at all , you can be repulsed at the thought of having friends , you can not want friendship to be mentioned around you , you can dislike ex-friends who have hurt you . The only thing that makes you a shitty person is if you outright hate on people for having friends and act like friendships are horrible and should never happen , especially if you turn your hatred of a harmless relationship into a fucking identity . This is not "aplatonic" , this is just hating people for being different than you and acting like it's a personal attack when people are in entirely harmless relationships and not bothering you at all . That is not being aplatonic or friendship-repulsed . That is just being homomisic but hating relationships you try to pass as "okay to hate" instead of hating relationships that you deem "acceptable" or ""not okay to hate" .

(will not be giving out the person's username - V have already reported them)

(comment from vy apl rosefriend because as V am not apl V do not feel qualified to make claims about this because V do not experience being apl : "shut up forever . if you don't want to have friends then don't . if you hate having friendships then don't have any , that's entirely your choice and i am the same way . but hating someone for having an identity and being in a type of relationship you dislike ???? um . it's giving homophobia tbh")