#queermisia

[that-antitheist]

"tma/tme" "lesboys idk if it's valid tbh..." "idk if i can accept bi lesbian:/" "transandrophobia is it real or not?" "it's not possible to be gaybian!!" "transmisogyny/transandrophobia doesn't exist" "it's bad to be an afab trans woman" WHO FUCKING CARES. ALL QUEER PEOPLE ARE OPPRESSED EVERYWHERE. WE ARE BEING KILLED EVERYWHERE. IT IS NOT THE TIME FOR KINDERGARTEN ARGUING

[ginstermotte]

Look at me. No, hey, wait. Please listen:

You cannot hate your way into a better future. It isn't possible. Even and especially if your hatred feels justified. You cannot do it. Only love, unity, peace and forgiveness make for a better world.

I know life isn't fair and it probably never will be. But you can choose hope. Get up.

[cericertain]

There needs to be a real discussion about how y'all cannot help but dequeer intersex people. It's not intersex kids being forced into/pressured into SRS, its lucky cis kids. it's not a trans woman, its someone who's birth sex is "too close" to being female so they are "basically cis". Some of you queers are allergic to acknowledging intersex people are their own group, with their own diverse experiences, and their own struggles that deserve conversations that do not centre you.

Overemphasizing someone as cis (even if they tell you otherwise) as a way to undermine their voice as an intersex person is erasure. Barring us from queerness is erasure of our struggles. How can you call yourself someone who is a supoorter of the LGBT when you only care about yourself? Your voice matters as much as that of a white feminist's.

[this-is-saneism]

my mom would tell anyone that's like...weirded out by me being queer or just unashamedly being myself and embracing who i am and what i like, that she's not gonna judge me bc, y'know, im mentally ill! and i get these ideas...because i'm mentally ill...so just indulge me! i'm not hurting anyone and i'm mentally ill...mentally ill ppl do all sorts of funny things!

This is saneism and queermisia

[charlie-lottie]

[ English is not my native language, I apologize if there are any mistakes. ]

It’s so funny to hear it from people who start off by saying, "We support intersex people!", only to then turn around and claim that being intersex is a "mutation," that intersex people can be neatly divided into "men" and "women," that self-discovery is "invalid," or that if your variation doesn't cause you health issues, you're "not actually intersex"—and other such nonsense.

Last month, in a queer community, I shared my trans and cis experiences, which are tied to my intersex and neurodivergent lived experience. Someone reposted my message to an exclusionist queer channel that supposedly "supports" intersex people. They wrote that no intersex person would ever call themselves "cis+trans," calling it a "disgrace" to the community. They also claimed that unless a doctor has confirmed it, I can’t call myself intersex. On top of that, they called me a 12-year-old girl who's just "attention-seeking"—even though I’m almost 19, and my age was literally listed in my profile.

I just want to say that your "support" for intersex people vanishes the exact moment our actual lived experience becomes inconvenient for you or doesn't fit into your binary worldview.

[this-is-adultism]

Idk if this is a hot take but saying that you can’t headcanon characters who are minors as queer is adultism. As long as ur not sexualizing them, it’s okay! Stop erasing queer kids. this isn’t targeted towards the owner(s) or mod(s) btw:3

This is adultism and queermisia.

Also, I disagree with the "unless you're sexualizing them" bit, minors can be sexual and there's nothing wrong with portraying that. As long as you're not sexually exploiting or abusing the likeness of real minors, there isn't a problem with, say, sexual content of a highschool ship. Yes even if you're an adult.

[this-is-alterhumisia]

I won’t lie, I get extremely jealous seeing other beings post about their relationships with their alterhuman partners. And I know it’s wrong but I just can’t help it.

I had considered telling my husband that I was otherkin, even knowing that he thinks the community is delusional and would probably say I need therapy. However that idea was quickly tossed when the discussion of trans people came up and I asked him if I transitioned, what would happen to us?

Basically is boiled down to if I stayed as I am he would have no issue. But if I did surgery to become a guy it would pretty much be over, at least physically. So yeah, not telling him I’m otherkin, this is going to the grave with me.

And before people yell divorce, we’ve been together for over a decade, have a young child together, and live in Texas. My only family I have is a mom who still supports JK Rowling and believes that whenever I’m sick (even to the point of going to the ER) it’s because of depression.

Sorry for the mini rant I needed to get this off my chest. Please for those of you who want a partner or have one, make sure they 100% accept who you are.

This is altersaneism and queermisia.

[pet-shop-of-horror-fan]

"Are you AMAB or AFAB? Are you transmasc or transfem? Are you TME or TMA?"

I don't know, you tell me. What I say never seems to matter. My gender, biology, and history always come back to whatever internet weirdos find to be the most convenient for them at any given time.