#questioning girlflux

[girlflux-culture-is]

Can you be girlflux and never feel fully agender?

Yup

[questioning-culture-is]

Questioning culture is liking both she/her and they/them pronouns, but not knowing if you just like the pronouns or if you're actually demigirl/girlflux/genderfae :')

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[girlflux-culture-is]

I have identified as a cis girl for most of my life, and I only recently started questioning that, and I recently started using she/they pronouns. I had been calling myself “a cis girl but with a funky relationship with gender”. but well a friend of mine mentioned the “girlflux” label and started explaining it, and it seemed to resonate with me? like that seems to explain what I had called my “funky relationship with gender”. some days I am fully a girl and very enthusiastic about this (and I’ll sometimes get gender euphoric being recognized as a girl, such as people calling me “girl” or a feminine term or using she/her). but other days I feel very apathetic about my gender and I’m like “call me what you’d like” pronoun/gender-wise, and my gender feels like “idk I’m just me”. and this has caused me to question my gender in the past, but I never knew “girlflux” was a thing until recently. but I also experience gender euphoria from being referred to with they/them pronouns and being seen as gender-neutral. but I’ve never experienced dysphoria or a desire to wear a binder (tho I am pretty flat-chested) and when I do feel apathetic about my gender, I’ve never really felt like she/her pronouns were wrong for me, I was just kinda like “eh whatever I don’t care what you call me” about it? I have a long ways to go in figuring out myself but does this sound like I could be girlflux?

Yes this does sound like girlflux! If the girlflux label resonate with you at all then it's open for you to use! (Obviously if you don't like the a label then don't use it lol.) Also, you don't have to dysphoric to be any gender! I hope you have a good and safe journey figuring out who you are!

[girlflux-culture-is]

Am I able to be girlflux but never fully identifying as a girl while still identifying with masculine/non-binary genders?

Sure, if you feel like you're girlflux then you're girlflux

[girlflux-culture-is]

Questioning girl*flux culture is knowing that you're completely MLM/NBLM/etc and not into women, but very rarely you have the active thought of "Yaknow, I wouldn't mind it if a lesbian was attracted to me and wanted to date me. I'd be cool with that, my gender is a little messy, it could work" and it makes total sense in the moment. Later when you're not in flux, you then constantly question that statement and where it came from.

I just added the asterisk bc if I am actually fluxing to any feminine gender I don't think it's a woman-aligned gender, probably feminine-aligned or more likely femme-aligned. Like I said, questioning and all that lol

whelp then; questioning girlflux culture :)

[girlflux-culture-is]

questioning girlflux culture is forgetting you even have a gender, remembering it, telling yourself to keep better track of how your gender, rise and repeat

Girlflux culture

[girlflux-culture-is]

Hello!! I was wondering if I might be girlflux but I feel like I fluctuate between female, agender, and nonbinary. I also find myself wanting a male body sometimes (I'm afab), but not to be male mentally ig. Would I count as girlflux?

I don't think this is said enough but you know who you are better than everyone else even if you feel like you don't know now. Sometimes it just takes time to figure it out but you're going to be stuck with yourself for the rest of your life so... To answer your question yes, it does sound like you are girlflux if you feel like the label resonates with you at all than you are free to use it!

(If you do feel like you need more help a gender therapist isn't a bad idea! I have a friend who's gone to one before although they aren't a very great option money wise.)

- Mod Delusion

[girlflux-culture-is]

I have a question, someone who is girflux can identified themselves as uranic?

Yes, someone who is girlflux can identify as uranic! Sexuality and gender are different things, and identifying with one label doesn't exclude you from another!