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@girlflux-culture-is
Welcome to girlflux-culture-is!
Anyone who's girlflux or is curious about what it means is welcome!
Please start submissions with something like "girlflux culture is" or "other labels girlflux culture is"!
Here's the Gender Wiki page on what girlflux means, if anyone's curious.
DNI racists, pedophiles, aphobes, queerphobes in general, TERFs, and any other sort of mean people.
That's all! Thanks for reading, and happy browsing!
Looking for new mods
Hello everyone!
First of all, thank you for your engagement with this blog - your comments are what make this community what it is, and we're so grateful for your support.
With that said, we are looking for new moderators. Mod Delusion and I no longer feel we are the best people to support this blog, but we want to see it live on. If you are interested in becoming a moderator, please let us know!
AFAB girlflux culture is never knowing if you should call yourself trans or cis
Girlflux culture
Girlflux culture is feeling extremely neutral one day and freaking out because you think you’re feeling masc and now you have to re-evaluate everything. Because fluid/flux microlabels are a pain to sort through but you don’t like the feeling of “close enough” labels
Girlflux culture
This poll is for multigender people only! If you're not multigender but you want to see the results, you can wait a few days for the poll to be over, or just shoot me an ask and I will be happy to share a screenshot because I love rambling about numbers. Please do not vote if you're not multigender.
Multigender people: How many sets of pronouns do you use?
No pronouns, name only
One set of pronouns
Multiple pronouns combined into one set (ex: she/him/his/hers/himself)
Two sets of pronouns
Three sets of pronouns
Four sets of pronouns
Five or more sets of pronouns
All pronouns
My pronouns change regularly
I am still questioning/figuring out my pronouns
If you use aux pronouns, it's up to you whether you want to include them in your total number of pronoun sets.
Hello! Yes, genderfluid is part of the multigender umbrella.
Multigender includes: polygender, bigender, ambigender, trigender, quadgender, quintgender, omnigender, pangender, libragender, magigender, nanogender, genderfluid, genderflux, fluidflux, demigender, demiflux, and demifluid! There are many, many others but those are the ones I can think of off the top of my head. 💛
afab girlflux culture is being confused when you feel very feminine and then questioning whether you’re actually girlflux or just tricking yourself skeneofbd
afab girlflux culture
Girlflux culture is not really thinking about gender until you meet your own eyes in the mirror for the first time that day and realise something's different
Girlflux Culture
is it possible to fake being girlflux? like could I have convinced myself that i experience a fluctuating gender… but actually not?
I know people who've identified as girlflux and realized it wasn't right for them, but those people were just figuring themselves out at the time and realized it wasn't the right label for them.
From a psychological standpoint, technically yes, though I'm going to go with no and I'll tell you why. You won't just make things up just because, for some reason or another you looked at this label and said; "Hey this might be me!" That's important, and perhaps you have to do some more reflecting on yourself and maybe you aren't girlflux.
Although lots of times people will try and convince themselves that they're faking it, or that they're being dramatic, or want attention etc. That could be dysphoria, internalized transphobia, or if your in a toxic environment that could also influence your thought process.
Just know whatever you figure out, if you realize perhaps you aren't girlflux, or that yes, you are girlflux that this community will always be here for you.
cw: transprejudice and vent questioning girlflux culture is being told by your best friend that you’re just trying to fit in with a trend by being girlflux. the friend tells you to try and take your mind off it because ‘the more you think about it the more you feel it’. so essentially this friend tells you that you’re making this all up, and since this person is your best friend you feel like you should believe them since they know you so well and are looking out for you.
Girlflux culture
girlflux culture is planning out a nice outfit for a special occasion a week in advance… then getting to the day of the occasion and your gender does not match the outfit.
Girlflux Culture
questioning girlflux culture is sometimes wanting to wear super feminine and brightly coloured clothes, and sometimes wanting to wear more androgynous clothes with a different aesthetic. unfortunately i mainly own the first type of clothes so when i feel more androgynous i don’t have many good clothes to wear.
Girlflux culture
Girlflux culture is being comfortable with she/they pronouns and but preferring Mx over Ms/Mrs/Mr
Girlflux culture
MLM CULTURE IS
WELCOME
Welcome to MLM Culture Is! This is a blog for people to submit “MLM Culture Is” asks and submissions for everything related to gay men and gay non-binary people.
This blog is run by Tom ( @t0mbles , they/he), who is gay themself.
RULES
1. Don’t use the submissions feature when submitting posts. Use the ask feature to submit it.
2. Keep your submissions related to MLM/Gay topics.
3. Start your submission with something like “MLM culture is” or “Gay culture is”, etc.
4. No NSFW is allowed at all in your submission.
Note: While this blog is mainly intended for people who identity with the MLM/Gay label (Gay men or Non-Binary Gays, as well as Bi/Pan men/non-binary people and others), anyone else can view this blog. We are always open to all. <3
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Enjoy the blog!
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This is only relevant to USians, but-- you know how you feel like there's nothing you can do about anything and online petitions are meaningless? This is not that. The government is required to read and document their consideration of every comment they receive on regulation changes like this. If you're in the US, take some time to comment. A real human will have to read your comments. This is the opposite of a meaningless petition.
https://www.federalregister.gov/documents/2022/07/12/2022-13734/nondiscrimination-on-the-basis-of-sex-in-education-programs-or-activities-receiving-federal
Reblogging on 9/10/22 and this ends 9/12/22.
terfs really will maim their own platforms because they hate intersex/nonbinary/trans people.
From the summary (not even the actual in-depth review, the fucking summary):
With regard to sex-based harassment (as defined in proposed § 106.2), the proposed regulations would:
Define sex-based harassment to include but not be limited to sexual harassment;
Provide and clarify, as appropriate, definitions of various terms related to a recipient's obligations to address sex discrimination, including sex-based harassment;
Clarify how a recipient is required to take action to end any sex discrimination that has occurred in its education program or activity, prevent its recurrence, and remedy its effects; and
Clarify a recipient's obligations related to the grievance procedures and other necessary steps when it receives a complaint of sex discrimination.
With regard to discrimination against individuals who are pregnant or parenting, the proposed regulations would:
Define the term “pregnancy or related conditions” and the term “parental status,” and prohibit discrimination against students and applicants for admission or employment on the basis of current, potential, or past pregnancy or related conditions; and
Clarify a recipient's obligations to students and employees who are pregnant or experiencing related conditions.
These boil down to (from my very weak understanding. I am not trained nor knowledgeable in law):
Codifying definitions of harassment based on sex and gender. This adds more protections for cis girls, women, boys, and men (as well as intersex, nonbinary, and trans people)! This is literally the goal! This means people can’t wave away shit with “boys will be boys” or “she was wearing revealing clothing”!
How to address instances of harassment based on sex and gender! Why wouldn’t you want a clear set of guidelines to follow when your kid is being harassed for being a girl? Or for being a boy? What kind of person wouldn’t want that?
Protects pregnant people from being harassed (which includes, le gasp, women and girls! Amazing! It’s almost like they’re trying to codify protections for people of all genders and sexes! How daring!)
This is the fucking summary. These are, barring some harebrained misogynistic idiocy, wins.
What terfs are saying with their shit comments is that they will discard protections for children rather than have intersex, nonbinary, and trans people have even an iota of safety.
But intersex/nonbinary/trans people need to be stopped “for the children”.
Right.
Girlflux afab culture is thinking up a new gender neutral name for people to call you but running back to the ultra feminine you were originally given before long :')
Girlflux culture
Go here to comment ^ reblog to help spread the word!
This is only relevant to USians, but-- you know how you feel like there's nothing you can do about anything and online petitions are meaningless? This is not that. The government is required to read and document their consideration of every comment they receive on regulation changes like this. If you're in the US, take some time to comment. A real human will have to read your comments. This is the opposite of a meaningless petition.
https://www.federalregister.gov/documents/2022/07/12/2022-13734/nondiscrimination-on-the-basis-of-sex-in-education-programs-or-activities-receiving-federal
Reblogging on 9/10/22 and this ends 9/12/22.
terfs really will maim their own platforms because they hate intersex/nonbinary/trans people.
From the summary (not even the actual in-depth review, the fucking summary):
With regard to sex-based harassment (as defined in proposed § 106.2), the proposed regulations would:
Define sex-based harassment to include but not be limited to sexual harassment;
Provide and clarify, as appropriate, definitions of various terms related to a recipient's obligations to address sex discrimination, including sex-based harassment;
Clarify how a recipient is required to take action to end any sex discrimination that has occurred in its education program or activity, prevent its recurrence, and remedy its effects; and
Clarify a recipient's obligations related to the grievance procedures and other necessary steps when it receives a complaint of sex discrimination.
With regard to discrimination against individuals who are pregnant or parenting, the proposed regulations would:
Define the term “pregnancy or related conditions” and the term “parental status,” and prohibit discrimination against students and applicants for admission or employment on the basis of current, potential, or past pregnancy or related conditions; and
Clarify a recipient's obligations to students and employees who are pregnant or experiencing related conditions.
These boil down to (from my very weak understanding. I am not trained nor knowledgeable in law):
Codifying definitions of harassment based on sex and gender. This adds more protections for cis girls, women, boys, and men (as well as intersex, nonbinary, and trans people)! This is literally the goal! This means people can’t wave away shit with “boys will be boys” or “she was wearing revealing clothing”!
How to address instances of harassment based on sex and gender! Why wouldn’t you want a clear set of guidelines to follow when your kid is being harassed for being a girl? Or for being a boy? What kind of person wouldn’t want that?
Protects pregnant people from being harassed (which includes, le gasp, women and girls! Amazing! It’s almost like they’re trying to codify protections for people of all genders and sexes! How daring!)
This is the fucking summary. These are, barring some harebrained misogynistic idiocy, wins.
What terfs are saying with their shit comments is that they will discard protections for children rather than have intersex, nonbinary, and trans people have even an iota of safety.
But intersex/nonbinary/trans people need to be stopped “for the children”.
Right.
Yeah I guess that would be feeling like a lack of gender but I don't like feel like I missing something or whatever, I just don't really understand gender? But I wouldn't feel comfortable saying I'm agender or something bc I don't feel like I don't have a gender. I just don't get it ig? I'm afab and fine being a girl but I don't feel "wow I'm such a girl. I feel so female!" I'm just a girl just bc I was raised that way I think. That is probably either a very cis thing or a very agender thing lol
I giggled I bit when I read your response! Perhaps it's a little bit of both? I'm also kinda at a loss here I'm not going to lie, but if you feel like you want some more answers the gender wiki is always a good place to start! They have a lot of genders on their wiki, so you might be searching for a while. Another place worth checking out, is the pronouns page - if you ever struggle with pronouns that's a good place to start!
Keep us updated if you want, if you need anymore help we're always open! Just know that you are always welcomed here!
