#rad leaning

[owingnoone]

... while i find it deeply depressing how women are getting double mastectomies as a fashion choice, this comment is fucking crazy.

"female behaviors", according to TRAs:

- wearing pink

- wearing eyeliner

- dressing up

"male behaviors", according to TRAs:

- playing sports

- dating women

[desisted-bug]

it becomes really obvious that sex socialization is real once you spend enough time in trans spaces tbh. the lengths that trans ppl ofab/afab go to in order to be understood perfectly, seen as kind + respectful + submissive, or act "politically correct" is stuff i have literally never witnessed among TIMs. transmasc-dominated discord servers feel like what i imagine cultural sensitivity meetings are, and transfem-dominated ones feel like call of duty lobbies

(i'll be more specific in case this is too vague to understand: in my experience, TIFs are very dedicated to being conscious of not "invalidating" anyone, using arguably performative language like "unhoused", or virtue-signaling through IDing as "punk" or "anti-fascist". that is in stark contrast to TIMs, who often sling slurs they have no business saying, enjoy mocking others, and claim ideologies like authoritarian communism for aesthetics or Cool Points with no regard for their dangers)

[frozen-willow]

Something that will never cease to amaze me is how greedy and entitled male sexuality is. Even with the copious amounts of various types of p0rn (no matter how depraved) and other similar content that exist to satisfy their repulsive urges, even though nearly form of media has catered to their fantasies for decades, they still: complain when literally any female character or celebrity doesn’t live up to their disgusting jerk off material standards, insult and degrade any random, every day woman completely unprovoked when they don’t live up to their disgusting jerk off material standards (yet also do the same to those that do), and watch p0rn and cheat while their wife/gf is: pregnant, postpartum, sick, grieving, older, depressed, etc. I’m sure that I’m missing many more.

[crestiliafem]

Nonbinary people are the biggest hypocrites when it comes to gender theory. Aside from the fact that it's mostly women who are trying to escape oppressive gender stereotypes, nonbinary people frequently complain about how restrictive gender norms are, and these restrictions are what made them want to be nonbinary in the first place.

However, if you are implying to be outside of the binary, doesn't that imply everyone else is within the binary? Doesn't that push gender norms further onto everyone around you, assuming that they want to fall into the mold and oppression, while you do not?

Gender ideology is all wrong at it's core, but I decided to make this post especially about nonbinary people's hypocrisy, because you're not about to go around complaining about the very system that helps you continue being who you are.

[femlacey]

I don’t care if a woman is amongst the worst human beings to walk this earth, if you believe that writing or imagining rape and sexually violent fantasies is an acceptable response to their actions you should stay far away from women. I don’t care if they’re transgender-exclusive, I don’t care if they’re conservative, I don’t care if they’re a criminal. Your fantasies reflect what you’re capable of thinking about all women.

[residentofincelistan]

"You can't criticize kink because it's part of queer culture"

So was the North American man boy love association...

[lovelycranium]

After remembering "A Room of One's Own", which I read ages ago, it occurred to me that every woman should have her own room. This room shouldn’t be a shared space—not the living room, kitchen, or bathroom. She should always have access to it and the right to lock herself inside. This applies to married women (regardless of their spouse’s sex) too. I know the practice of having "your own bedroom" with "shared bedroom" can be expensive, but it seems crucial to me that a woman always has the option to retreat to a place where she feels safe—her own room

[przewalskishorsegirl]

BTW if you ID as or in any way support 'political lesbianism' get the fuck away from me I am not your ally. You can come back when you learn not to be a homophobic fucking freak.

If you are not 1) Female sexed 2) Exclusively, naturally attracted to the female sex you are not and can never be a lesbian. No ifs, ands or buts. Its not that difficult. Use other words.