#radicallyqueer

[allykotetsu]

i believe in sex neutrality. Sex shouldn't be treated so differently than everything else, and it should be normalized to talk about

[pooltoyparaphile]

Hello Radqueer community!

I normally keep my edits to myself, BUT I had an urge and impulse to redesign the Radqueer flag.

I incorporated the colors of a strawberry color dropped from a real strawberry. I kept the rainbow and black bars of the original flag.

Feel free to use this flag or not.

Credits appreciated but NOT required.

I hope everyone likes this. It feels important to create from love and creativity.

Friendly reminder to anyone who is NOT a Radqueer;

We are PRO consent

ANTI non consentual abuse

Actions =/= Urges =/= Impulses =/= Words =/= Thoughts =/= Fantasy

Remember, just because someone is a paraphile, (a condition which is not controlled by the way), does not mean that they are automatically going to be an abuser. Educate yourselves on paraphilias from educated professionals, from books, blogs, anything. EDUCATE YOURSELF before you start spewing hatred and propaganda and misinformation.

*edit to add*

Also, I am NOT a MAP, ZOO, or NECRO. Just because someone has those as one of their paraphilias does not automatically make them an abuser. Arousal is not the same thing as abusing. Thoughts, works of fiction and talking to others is not always as bad as thought by many.

[verymanyrats]

this was posted by Esther Says Cheese on pinterest, but i thought this community would like it :)

[percyisrad]

Hey radqueer community!

A pal of mine started a petition ~a week ago for the shutdown of r/Systemscringe. It's gained traction, but if we want action to be taken, we'll probably need more signatures.

For those who are unaware, Systems Cringe is a subreddit that harms plurals of all origins, no matter the count of headmates, their stance on non-traumagenic plurality, or their diagnostic recognition. They disregard and fakeclaim organized abuse, they make fun of systems for using system resources (no seriously, they said a system was faking because they used Simply Plural. Tf??), they stigmatize plurality and contribute to the hostile views the public already has of people who identify as such, etc..

Even if you're a singlet, every voice matters. Help us get this taken down, for your fellow plurals.

Link:

Sign the Petition

Shut down R/Systemcringe for good

[nowness]

Rambling: Eileen Myles

Out and about in New York with poetry’s punk maverick

[allykotetsu]

oh my god, the craziest thing happened

I got RECOGNIZED!!! by another radqueer!

I was outside in public and they just walked up to me and was like "hey, are you from Beyond the Plus?" Then they told me they were closeted but looked up to me and wanted to exchange contact info so we could stay in touch

Ts is the best thing that's ever happened to me istg. I'm also really happy for the other person! But i've never been recognized before, at least that I know of, and it makes me pretty happy that I finally have been, and that it was good attention

Antis can say whatever they want to me, that despair does not equal a hundredth of the hope that I feel when someone tells me I'm an inspiration to them.

[allykotetsu]

Big Radqueer Survey out NOW!

Hey everyone, I've been working on a survey for you radqueers and it's finally done! It's a big survey with lots of questions, all designed to give me some insight of who our community is, where we're at, what we want to see, and how that all correlates. All the questions are optional, but the more you answer the better data I'll get. It's hosted on Cryptpad, an anonymous, end-to-end encrypted survey hosting website. The findings of the survey will be made public, however, text answers will be rephrased to maintain anonymity, and individual results will not be made public. Please share it to those you know!

Encrypted Form

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[allykotetsu]

fun fact! If you sign up for a website and put a + somewhere in your email address (before the @ sign) then everything after the + will be ignored when sending emails. Like if my email address is [email protected], I can sign up as [email protected], and all the emails will still go to [email protected]

The fun part about this is that most websites don't recognize the + emails as being the same as an email without the plus. So I could sign up for two accounts on the same website with the same email so long as one of them has a + and some characters afterwards (again, before the @)

this is known as subaddressing (or plus addressing) and is useful for tagging different websites (like signing up for websites you know will send you spam with a +spam in the email address) and other stuff as well :3