Look me directly in the eyes when I say this, I need some of you to fucking understand something.
You cannot pull an "I told you so" if and/or when Trump supports get fucked over by the policies they voted for.
If you actually want people to understand where we're coming from, if you want these people to actually change, we have to meet them with compassion. It is not "haha, that's what you get, serves you right" it is "hey man, me too, we'll get through this together." Like, yeah the whole "kill em with kindness" shit is overplayed, but we cannot criticize the people we say aren't empathetic and then be a dick when they get humbled. Moreover, if you're going to get these people to accept and understand LGBTQ people/minorities/disabled people/etc. they have to actually be exposed to people from those communities because the more that happens the more accepting they become
Obviously there's infinite nuance, don't come at me with that. Just please, ffs, don't be a huge dick online and if someone's trying to understand or change, help them. I'm very much "fuck Trump" and "punch Nazis" as the next punk but also fucking be nice to people.