Hello, I'm not sure if I'm demiromantic or not... The only crushes I've had are on best friends that I've already had for around a year. But, I've never gone out looking for romantic relationships that much, so I'm not sure if that is the only way I can have a crush. (Been focused on school.) Do you think that sounds enough like demiromaticism for me to use it as a label?
Absolutely. Trust me - alloromantics get crushes on people they don't know at all, people they just met, people they only vaguely know... You don't have to be actively looking for a partner to crush on someone, if you do in fact feel romantic attraction in an alloromantic pattern. It sounds to me like you're demiromantic, but most importantly - you feel that you are demiromantic, so you are.